Hi All, It’s time for another Sexy Confession! Find it below 
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I love watching my partner with any toy but preferably the bigger ones.She used to be very shy but is now anything but.The sight of her being stretched,the groans of pure joy and lust as she is really filled turn me on so much.I am only average size but in no way feel intimidated when she uses these huge dildos and we both get a great deal of pleasure from them.
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If it was me I would encourage her to bring out the bigger toys during our play time, and see how I could use something to replicate having a bigger penis for her to enjoy with me.
Definitely worth having a conversation with your partner, explaining you are happy with his size but do like the feeling of something bigger and that’s the reason why you have bigger toys.
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I .. would .. love it!
Her knowing what turns her on and not being afraid to try it and experiment with it .. thats really hot.
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As long as you make it clear that it’s not about him, I see no issue with it. My biggest glass dildo is 9.5 inches, my husband is approximately 6.5 fully erect. It’s never bothered him; he loves using it with me.
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I’d have no issue with a partner using larger toys. I would just be pleased to know that they are enjoying pleasure and would find it a turn on.
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We had a very similar conversation about Dildos and toys bigger than him. I mentioned it to him and was left pleasantly surprised when he told me that he had previously fantasised about them.
Being open and not keeping secrets (even if it’s just sex toys and the size) is what worked for us.
You’ll never know unless you mention it 
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I’d agree with other replies on this one, being open and honest could lead you both down a sexy rabbit hole to explore
Like you’ve expressed toys don’t replace partners, to my knowledge men can’t vibrate like a wand can and similarly without some genetic miracle they can’t be girthy and long like a moulded piece of silicon can. The toys are simply an addition to your sexual pleasure and explaining that or even just mentioning what you’re up to during solo play may be enough to peak their curiosity.
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So long as it didn’t detract or take away from the enjoyment of my penis then totally fine. I’d go as far as to be happy to incorporate it into sex.
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I actually wish my wife would try dildo type big toys. I think there is nothing hotter than seeing a pussy stretched 
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I do love big dildos in our play and husband is totally at ease with them being used on me and by us both.hes totally at ease with using big toys and actually does love to see me stretched by them.i love my husbands cock and he is not threatened at all by them as he says most dildos that we like are bigger than most guys cocks.its all about fantasy play and being in the moment.he has never said he would want a tighter pussy on me for an opposite example we see just exploring g together, Being g comfortable in ourselves .
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Just realised I’ve never posted about my special talent … 
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Completely fine with it!
Actually turned on by it. Seeing her use a bigger dildo than my penis doesn’t bother me at all. As long as she’s getting pleasure from it, I totally support her. I’m not intimidated by her doing so. I’m confident in myself and know she likes what I can do as well. So party on. Have a great time is what I say. 
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“But I enjoy the fantasy solo play that only a big toy can give. How would you feel if your partner enjoyed big toys?”
Heather here, Herman’s wife.
We experience this, but in reverse.
To me, this is about trust, communication, being open and honest. Being in a relationship, being partners requires two people merging their lives together and there has to be a give and take there. While in a relationship, we’re still all individuals too.
I’m open and out there about things. My husband is more reserved but he’s come out of his shell more as time has gone by.
I feel that we (my hubby and I) need to be open, honest and discuss things with each other and that includes topics regarding sex too.
My husband is large down there and we only have PIV sex 1 or 2 times a week. If we have it for too long or too often, I get sore down there.
But I like sex, I love it actually! My toys are smaller than my husband is by a good deal.
I can use my toys daily or on days we don’t have PIV and it’s fine as they provide pleasure and I don’t get sore from using them.
My husband and I have talked about this. He will use some of my dildos on me as he wants me to have pleasure too without becoming sore.
Also I love anal sex! However I’ve never been able to have anal sex with my husband, though I really tried for quite a while years ago at the beginning of our relationship. I’m able to have anal orgasms too. My husband is an ass man and he loves anal but we can’t have it.
He and I will use dildos in my bottom.
My husband also knows about other things regarding this overall topic for us too. Long ago before I met my husband, the partner I was with had a 3.5 inch erection and it curved upward a bit. I loved it! We could have sex daily, it felt great, I’d have vaginal orgasms with him and I didn’t get sore from having regular sex with him.
I love sex with my husband too, but it’s just different.
Different doesn’t mean bad or worse, just different.
So, whether a person like you enjoys using huge toys (which is great) or whether they prefer small toys than their partner has, that’s OK too.
It’s not a competition, it shouldn’t ever be. Herman and I have to make do with our bodies, with the way we both are and there are pros and cons to this. But love goes way beyond sex.
To me, it’s not about whether the toy is much larger than your husband or whether the toy would be much smaller than your husband, it’s about experiencing things you want to and sharing them with your partner.
I really hope your partner would use those large toys on you, to be with you, to see you and be a part of it, to experience that for himself and with you.
While it is the reverse of you, my husband knows he can’t have anal sex with me and that he’ll never bring me to have an anal orgasm with his penis and he knows that my toys will give me an anal orgasm and in fact he brings to me anal orgasms using my toys in me down there.
My husband and I both want each of us to experience joy, satisfaction, orgasms with each other regardless of how and the way we achieve that.
This is something that ADDS to your life, to your sexual pleasure and experience. Something that adds to you doesn’t mean it also subtracts or takes away from your partner. As you said, you like his penis and having sex with it and him.
I really hope you’re able to broach this topic with him at some point and that he’s receptive to it.
Wishing the best for you.
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Possibly one of the most beautiful things I’ve read on here.
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