@Stuck_nomore what made you decide to try toys? I have a wand in the cupboard here, female friends have told me it’s amazing. She will probably love it once tries n relaxed. Jus need to convince her it’s the way forwards
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@Dom624 honestly this could become a novel 
so I’ll try to break it down. I grew up in sex negative household. But
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My hubby family was sex positive soo I started to question my inhibitions (we were teens when we met)
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Tried sex toys thru sex toy parties where I could purchase, and I tried a couple of things, bullets being cheap, and pleasurable.
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I watched 50 Shades and I also read the film’s source material (I found regular porn to be ridiculous, I never made such noises
and that discouraged me) soo I researched female positive porn that isn’t soo male centric. -
My biggest breakthrough was getting help mentally, but this was for me a journey with positive occasions beforehand.
Everyone’s journey is their own, I don’t think there’s a precise way for everyone, I just want to encourage people. Don’t give up. But don’t try to rush things. Be encouraging. Be honest with your partner. Be vulnerable about your needs. I say this because I text my hubby things I am still not wanting to say face to face but it gets the conversation going and that’s a good thing. I want to encourage people and I know I’m already spreading the joy to a couple of people because its good for our relationships 
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@Stuck_nomore your do good for such a detailed answer
… thank you very much. I actually told her the other day I have it. Was planning on trying to brea her on to it on our honeymoon but we had to cancel it over family issues. Just have to bode my time and wait for the right tie I guess
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@Dom624 enjoy the journey and I prefer breaking this journey into steps not to overwhelm your oh
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TY my mission in life is to encourage
I wish you could speak to her!