My partner and I are planning to have a boozy mexican themed night on friday, just the two of us and I was thinking it could be fun if we played some couple games. I know there are the basic ones such as strip poker, never have I ever, truth or dare. But I was hoping you knew of other, maybe, more exciting ones! Obviously games which build up sexual tension and involve a lot of teasing are very welcome.
I'm open to all suggestions, whether these are just games which will make us discover more about each other, sex games, teasing games, games which involve alcohol! Just anything fun and exciting you can think of and may have already played with your partner! We also have a range of sex toys and bondage accessories which can be used, so if you think of any games which involve those, please do share!
I have an app on my phone called "tiny decisions", its based on a spin the wheel concept but you can create your own wheels with your own ideas / activities. Mrs Sen and I have used it on our play dates with various activities (5 min total body massage, 1 min breast massage, 20 swats of paddle on butt, masturbate for 2 minutes etc), really, what you put on it is completely up to you.
You could take turns at who is on the receiving end of the instruction, add in there things like "lick a shot off your/their body" etc
There's an app out there called Desire - and that's a game for couples to set dares for points, in a sexual and non-sexual context. Seems fun but yet to convince the missus to try it.
Similar to the Desire App me and my partner use Spicer. Primarily it's an app to 'match' and discover fantasies, desires etc however it does have a challenge section where you can allocate points to customisable challenges and also set rewards for achieving X amount of points. It's less of a game and more of an app to use to find out more about each other but worth a mention.
We play a sort of poker one with 5 regular dice instead of cards. Basically roll the dice and see what hand you can make, and then re-roll some or all of them (or none) to try and improve it. We allow two re-rolls. The winner of each round gets to remove an item of clothing. Once naked the prize is then 30 seconds of oral or 30 seconds of a toy (or a full minute for 5 of a kind). šš
We have a couple of app games we play our favourite one is randomising positions and foreplay! We are prone to accidentally making routines and do things in the same order so this app helps us mix it up a little as well as trying new things! š We normally have a few drinks and have porn on in the background help make the mood all in all its always a fun night!
These sound promising. Just to create a little excitement and change from the routine once you get a little lazy I actually got a pack of foreplay dice and coupons for him (I donāt think my hubby would order toys unfortunately ) and was looking for suggestions only to just use the search button to see if anything was created yet. Iād love to see other ideas! Maybe with the dice use a timer app? Any other ideas?
There are doctor/nurse, estate agent/viewer and policeman/criminal to name a few. We opened them all up at once and picked the ones we would do and ones we wouldnāt. Had quite a nice little pile at the end we work our way through.
@Stuck_nomore i recently managed to get the elusive hands free prostate orgasm. Wasnāt even erect and never came as good Iām my life. Trust me is amazing. Is he shy bout it? You thinking a toy or fingers?
As for kinky games truth or dare. Ask each other questions bout your sex life together. Best orgasm you have given each other or hottest fuck had together. Write answers down n see what you both say. If donāt want to answer a question then dare to do something to one n other
@Dom624 I have come to realize I need subtle to new ideas to keep myself sexually engaged. Iāve told him this but he doesnāt know how to proceed but he is completely willing. I give suggestions, like, Iād like to try anal stuff, willing to experiment and want this to be pleasant for me so that he does see the potential enjoyment. We take it very slowly not to overwhelm ourselves because I want it to be a journey for both of us. I have a tendency to rush in full throttle and I know i need to pace myself and enjoy the process
Could be played with two, but more fun with multiple partners. āHide and go sex tag.ā Think of a combination of hide-and-seek and tag, played either in the house or out in the woods. One or more partners hide, and one hunts for you. If you think youāre going to get found, you run. Get caught, you submit to some sort of sex. Then youāre the hunterā¦
@Stuck_nomore sounds pretty much the same as my relationship. Iām in same position as you. She not a very sexual person, sex is all bout dick in fanny cum soon as rather than jus enjoying each other. Actual intercourse is far from the best part of sex. She gets up for a dirty night when we in a hotel or something or after a good drink. Talk dirty n stuff, even tried anal, her choice, didnāt like it, no problem. Was shocked she even wanted to try it. Donāt wanna try sex toys, she cums best when I rub her clit when fucking from behind but donāt like me touching it otherwise. So frustrating, i have fantasies that would probably freak her out.
@Dom624 we didnāt use toys for years, but once I got into it, well I have been on a spending spree on all kinds . My husband said, well as long as weāre no longer having sex just once a week, keep going . Building up anticipation, flirting, play starts the endorphins going and I think its both our way to satisfy each other. I donāt make an orgasm on my part the priority because I enjoy giving to him. When I do orgasm its amazing!!!