Curious have you ever shared your wife/husband with another person? I fantasies seeing my wife with another man and women and she said she could be up to it but I’m wondering how did it go? Was it fun? Was anything awkward afterwards?
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Thank you! I really appreciate that! I’m trying to make sure my questions are open to everyone!
Not in a “free” kind of way. However, my relationship is in a “poly-fidelity” form. I have a husband and 4 female partners, and within our little group I definitely enjoy sharing. Outside of that context I’d be jealous and not like it at all.
The sensations of multi-partner sex are really unique, especially when you know each other’s bodies really well. You get off on watching somebody else enjoy it, like you know exactly what is happening.
I have a very similar fantasy and wish to watch my wife with another man. I don’t want a degrading cuck situation though. More like a great Miranda Miller scene I go back to over and over again on Adult Time. My wife making eye contact with me, telling me how much she enjoys it, telling me how big he is and stretching her, telling me to stroke myself as I watch, etc., etc. No idea how to bring this up though, so just a secret fantasy right now
I’ve been lucky to have 2 X shared experiences
First one in motel room,my wife was there also,I always remember the lady asking who is that?oh that’s my wife,not going to get caught ay, was absolutely awesome.
Second time was even better,wife joined in also was so hot having a threesome!
How i brought it up to my wife was during sex. We were dooing a little role playing. I was the principal and she was the slutty teacher and as we were going I said something like Mr. Smith told me how good you were sucking dick and then acted like he walked in on us and joined. Try to make it hot bro! The way I set the story up with my wife and how it was brought up and delivered really got her going, which then opened her door to the possibility of making my fanatsy a possibility. Toys help to make it real and gets her imagination going when shes sucking on something while you fuck her.During sex try bringing up that new dick pleasuring her and she’ll get excited homie!
Thanks @greenbaynfl12 , that is great advice! I think that could go over well one night we are mutually masturbating and doing some role play. I can gauge her excitement around it when I bring it up as a story and keep building on it a little more each time. Thanks!
Think it’s called milf or something on them lines?!
If I was in a relationship and my partner wanted to try it I’d maybe consider but would need boundaries so I’d not feel like they just wanted other men… then again if they wanted to get off with seeing me with other guys then I’d perhaps find it hot
Quite a cloudy space in my mind when I think on it!
Interesting post and thanks for sharing. It’s not for me but everyone has a kink.
From my point of view, the thought of me and OH being watched together, either in the same room or someone spying on us is a massive turn on for me. I wouldn’t want to share OH though…
I need to take your idea now and turn it into my wife and I’s role-playing lol! That’s a great set-up to something like that lol
That would be super awesome to have happen! That’s my next step with my wife lol seeing her go down on another women would make me pretty happy lol
Good luck,yep it’s an awesome experience, getting in multiple positions including 69 mmmm yum
I am so excited about your suggestion and love the idea! To expand and share the ideas in my head, I am going to use a dildo and slowly transition from whispering solely about myself being the dildo she is using and mix in another guy. She really likes some back door play so I am going to have her shift the dildo to her backside. Once it is fully in her, I am going to start talking about how her pu55y must feel so empty. As I touch her clit I will shift to slipping a couple fingers inside. As she gets closer and closer to orgasm I will ramp up the talk of her two sexy holes being full. The next time, same beginning, but a dildo grabbed for DP. She controls one and I the other as I talk about doing DP. Eventually getting to asking who is filling her other hole and helping her feel so incredible. I am going to go with any name she shares and begin to talk about him and I inside her. Every time I will ask who it is filling her and see if she has a group of guys she may fantasize about or just the one. Also, each time from then on I will remove myself from that story more and more focusing my erotic story in her ear on the dildo we are pretending is the other guy. Eventually it will not be DP and the dildo will just be the other guy. I will be in the room watching and will ask her to tell me in explicit details how good he makes her feel, how deep he is, is he going to make her cum, can I taste her after she cums so hard on his cock, etc. etc.
A dirty talk fantasy is great for getting a reaction but just remember theres a difference between fantasy and reality and she might love the idea as a fantasy and be a hard no in reality. When you bring up the actual question, make it away from the bedroom so she knows its not just dirty talk.
Also her reaction could be a frosty no to your attempt at dirty talk. I would choose someone you know she thinks is hot, like Idris Elba, Aaron Pierre (thats Mufasa), Brad Pitt, Bon Jovi, Scarlett Johannson…whoever it is that you know she thinks is beautiful, involve them.
Our dog is named Mufasa but jokes aside that’s good advice and i appreciate that!!!
Damn bro that’s a hell of a way and a great way to get that fantasy started! I really liked how you eased the fantasy in and great story plot lol! I’ll need to take some notes off of that! I feel like seeing my wife ride another cock would be amazing and she’s got some skills… and seeing her getting fucked and cumming all over his cock while hearing her moan sounds like a good ol time!
That is awesome advice @JoCat and love the way to ease into by it truly starting out as a fantasy! The person is so far removed from reality as she will never meet, much less, sleep with these celebrities. Once I gauge her interest and receptiveness to the idea I can ease into something like the cashier at the grocery store who couldn’t stop checking her out, or the person at the local coffee shop who struck up a conversation with her, etc. to bring it closer to reality. I think this will take building the fantasy in her head especially as I want to see if she even likes it.
At some point it I also agree that it becomes a conversation away from the bedroom, over dinner, to see if she is open to me watching her with another man. I would be totally fine though if it stayed a fantasy and she got into it. She can absolutely make it up in the heat of moment. As I am getting ready to slip off her panties she tells me how wet and a mess she is after what Jim did to her. I go to slip inside her and she stops me, making sure I enter slowly as she is very tender after the hard f**king from Jim’s huge c0ck. While I am on top of her in missionary she whispers in my ear asking how it feels, can I notice how wet she is, Jim didn’t use a condom and now my c0ck is lubed up by Jim’s cum. Giving me permission to cum deep inside her, but telling I will have to go down on her after to clean it all up as she can’t be walking around with two massive loads in her. I absolutely love CEI and have gone down on her to enjoy a the cream pie I cooked up.
It will be a process that will take a many weeks, but I think it will be worth it. Plus, if she doesn’t end up getting into it then at least I know and she indulges many of my other kinks so we will be all good
Samantha and i have swutched on this topic. When we 1st met, she trird to persuade me to let her have a threesome with me and another guy. She used to talk about double penetration all the time. It made me jealous. I said maybe in the future but definitely not now.
Moving forward 3 years…i fantasize all the time about watching her giving other men bj’s and being fucked by other men but she now doesnt want to act on it. We talk about it all the time and use it in dirty talk while having sex though.
We were commenting at the same time and I love that as I would be excited to have it incorporated into our dirty talk as we played. I am sorry that she is no longer open to playing with another guy though. Maybe it is just a matter of identifying the right guy that turns her on, she trusts will keep it discreet, and going from there