Does shaving your bits enhance sensations with sex, and would you recommend it. Asking for my OH, who seems against it, but might benefit from the practice.
Well as you say is she is against it then that’s it I’m afraid. Whether or not you or her would benefit from it doesn’t matter, trying to convince her will just cause resentment.
Ask me how I know… My o’h just refuses flat out to do so (as is her right of course) due to not having a good experience once when she did so at a younger age (I won’t share the details)
We’ve seen more modern products are available and ways of doing it etc, but still a dead end. She can’t get over that previous trauma and I have to respect that.
She will trim now and again with the scissors, especially if we are going to a Naturist event, but that’s about it.
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Thanks. We had talked about it at one time. She seemed resistant because of the constant upkeep to avoid stubble and irritation. Now that we are entering a new phase and trying to find ways to enhance our pleasure, I wanted to know others take on if the removal of the hair significantly enhanced the sensations. Any edge would be helpful. And if if makes her feel uncomfortable in any way, I would not pressure her to do it. Thanks.
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I shave once a week, I get some some stubble by the end of the week but it’s not more than a millimetre or two.
I have cut myself once or twice and yes, that can be a bit traumatic. I’ve just learned to go slow though, and not use a razor that doesn’t have plenty of moisturising strip on it.
Would she let you shave her? Some couples really enjoy that and it can be very intimate if you’re both into it. All the best.
I do not know if she would let me shave her, that’s a thought. Even trimming her pubes might be a possible scenario. If I was able to convince her to let me do either, I suspect some oral would likely ensue, to make sure I did a good job. And if not for her, the sensuality of doing the job might inspire me to masturbate for her.
For us absolutely makes us both much more sensitive. We are always shaved so we have a quick hot shower and a quick re shave just before we have sex. Makes everything much more sensitive
Thank you, I suspected that to be true. I have heard that before but not really asked folks who did it with actual results.
I shave twice a week and use a balm to stop any itching. I do it for hubby as he likes to go down on me and he prefers me shaved for that. But i can honestly say for me it feels no different sensitivity wise than when i was hairy. I do prefer to be smooth though as it looks so much better when wearing lingerie or swim wear.
I don’t know if it has any actual physical benefit ,but for me who is either smooth or very closely trimmed ,underneath smooth and at very minimum landing strip and him totally smooth.i think it enhances sensation in a more mental way than an actual physical one.the fact that you guys might be doing it for the first time that might enhance pleasure sub consciously just knowing that you have done something different sexually for the first time which is always exciting when trying something new .one plus for sure being totally smooth is that lube if you use it goes a lot lot further and requires less application if used on a smooth vulva as opposed to on a hairier one I our experience
Yeas, hair sops up a lot of lube, and makes a mess for sure. Probably not going to convince her to shave, but a close trim might work. I prefer a bit of fuzz, but a thick bush, especially for oral isn’t my cupa. Don’t like a wet face.
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Yes totally agree .my guess is if she hasn’t embraced the smooth look already it may never happen.mine was Influenced heavily by watching porn and seeing totally bald pubic regions for the first time and decided we both liked the look,and realised its much more common and not a bit weird or unusual so tried it and liked it so stuck with it.its a highly personal thing and she should do it only if she’s 100% on board
If she uses shaves it down close instead then uses a good hair removal cream it should keep the stubble at bay for a while
It is a personal thing. At one time I wore a mustache, for many years. I eventually got tired of constantly trimming it and just shaved it off. It took me a while to get used to the bare skin, but I did and never went back.