Should I confront my wife?

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That would confuse me too.

You definitely should be allowed to release yourself as well

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From the cage? No I gave my cock to her. To use as she wishes, although I would like to masterbate over her breasts.

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Thrn maybe thats a discussion you could have

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It’s the emotional connection that toys don’t have that normally means the size is never an issue.

But your situation is somewhat different and I’m not sure the human interaction is a moot point from the start.

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No I couldn’t stand for my wife saying that she doesn’t want sex with me and then find out she’s playing with that size in the shower. I know your sex life or lack of it is your situation but I just couldn’t let this lie for the sake of her getting upset with saying something.

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I stand by my previous comment. This doesn’t sound like a healthy relationship to me, and frankly I don’t believe you when you say you’re happy.
To be honest, it sounds like emotional abuse and I think you both need professional help.

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@Subhubbie Is there any way I can discuss your problems with you through direct messaging? I want to send you a dm but couldn’t find any buttons to send one.

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@TigerYu There is no one on one chatting here​:+1:

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This shouldn’t be the case, you should be able to talk to her without fear of any repercussions. That’s what a relationship should be like;one where couples can talk things out.

Are both of you still lovey-dovey like other married couples, going on holidays together, laughing together, and dining at restaurants like they are dates? Instead of just only shopping together I mean.

Do you suspect that she lied to you,since she’s fine with the dildo?

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You are in a chasity cage and are her sub, shechas control over you and what she does sexually. If she doesn’t want sex with you, she doesn’t. If she’d rarher a dildo, she’d rather a dildo. I would not confront her other than asking to watch

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It appears to me that you are a total sub to her and she is dominant to you. If you cannot accept this then change, tell her and set out new requirements. You may not get sex but you can pleasure yourself with toys light fleshlights.