We have always done 69 so we’re both pleasuring each other but the last few times we’ve had sex I’ve sat on his face facing towards his head. I’ve found I can grab onto the headboard and grind on him so he’s hitting all the right spots which results in me cumming all over him. I’ll lean back and rub my hands over his penis, give him a slow hand job and then back to holding the headboard
I said I was worried I’d get too carried away and he won’t be able to breath under me and his response was “there are worse ways to die”
That is an amazing position - absolutely love the OH doing that to me - it’s been a wee while but I love it - that grinding and moving so I hit the right spots is perfect!
As a dominant man you can order your partner or submissive to sit and not give permission for them to cum it’s the same as cow girl or reverse cowgirl you can use those positions for doing things you want to try clit stimulation or anal play. Doesn’t mean you are being submissive @Scottishfunk have a bash if you feel you can.
This is super-fantastic, whether I am with Mr W or Pen, it is gives me really superb feelings…… doesn’t matter whether i am the one on top or underneath, it is beautiful…….. xx
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I don’t know why, but today I am feeling far more horny than usual, p’raps its the warmer weather….. oh it could be that other thread too….. got to try to get back to work…… glad I am not a man, would probably have a potentially embarrassing erection right now xx
Done it once, never again. As a larger woman, feeling hubby tap out because he couldn’t breathe put it firmly on my “nope” list — I don’t need to be reminded that I’m fat. I’ll happily ride him, but I won’t sit on his face.
This is one my favourite position to do oral. I like it so much because im not in control at all and all I can see is my wife enjoying what im doing. Ive also got amazing view of lovely massive boob’s
@BUSTYSTCLAIRE@Tenshadesandme it is possible for your husbands and you to enjoy this position a couple of tips from a man that been it that position is to start off simple.
Ask them to lie down on the bed with their head over the side, exactly the same as woman does to practice deep throating. Then straddle over their head, and allow them to control the time and depth.
If you have joint issues, then when on the bed raise your height using pillows either side of their head and if they start off with their arms at their sides, they can rub your back possibly wrap around to play with your breasts etc.
Having arms at their sides sides also allows them to push you up out of the way, tap out, or just control the weight you give them.
My wife will straddle my face more then sitting on it. But as I bring her pleasure, she will grind on my face. Even hold my head so my face is going her clit. Same with 69 and her on top. I love feeling her juices leak on me as I suck her clit. Fingering her bumm.
Im not worried about suffocating, maybe drowning. But I welcome that too.
