I wrote a massive spiel for you and the forum server crashed....pfft...try again..
Ok so, fake / supplement saliva..gel, spray, mouthwash, toothpaste. Google Biotene, I use this with my clients it’s the best stuff you can get. Maybe get the Gel & spray to start. It’s tasteless.
Rules for unstable, hyper mobile, subluxations Not & dislocating joints...
Read up on joint protection https://www.arthritisresearchuk.org/~/media/Files/Arthritis-information/Living-with-arthritis/2055-Looking-after-your-joints.ashx basic theory is to look after your joints. Don’t do what I do and carry one shopping bag per finger....
Applied to your bondage question here are some rules you should follow..
1) Safe word (gesture if your gagged). Any pain in your joints then stop and adjust. No question. No 5 more minutes. Just do it.
2) Get stronger - if your joints are getting less stable because of the cartilage in ligaments getting stretchier or changing in composition you need to increase muscle mass around the joint allowing your tendons to help out. Go swimming, cycling, walking - get stronger.
3) No knots directly against a joint, this risks destabilising the joint and increases risk of dislocation and subluxation.
4) No extreme stretching of the joint, if you pull your finger straight out making it as long as possible that’s what I mean by stretching. Make sure you either have some slack or put the joint into mild flexion ( a bit bent ).
5) No hyper extension of the joints, don’t bend them further than you can naturally move them. This is really really important with your incongruent joints which are designed to move on multiple axis e.g hips , shoulders, Atlas joint (between head and neck). This is because these joints are not really stable anyway and rely on a lot of muscle and ligaments to keep them in place.
6) Use nice firm, wide leather cuffs, tight as you like though to get strapped down. You can even place them over the joints like ankles and wrists to assist stabilise the joint. Whatever you do don’t position the cuffs so that they are causing hyper extension though ( example of hyper extension , straighten your elbow out fully, then push it as far as it will go, that’s hyper extension ). This includes wearing a cuff and moving your wrist hard to hold the ropes...
7) If you’re going to pick him up and throw him on the bed, bend your knees. Your spine is a row of joints designed to bend and flex, don’t hyper extend (bend backwards) beyond your normal range of movement and avoid lifting twists.
8) I would normally prescribe a Lycra orthitic suit for younger people with Ehlos Danlos Or joint hypermobility syndrome but a tailor made latex catsuit would work the same way, just provides a bit more stability through the joints...I dunno what you think?
9) You need to know that during the time of the month, women’s joints get stretchier anyway so just be aware and a bit more sensible leading up to, during and just after your period. Also if you’re at the life stage of wanting to get pregnant, be aware that if you do your joints will again n become more bendy. Also don’t forget to mention this to the Dr / Midwife ( not that you like to be strapped up, just about your joints) (Well I suppose you could share if you like? Your call!)...
10) There is a lot of info here, please make sure you bookmark the joint protection link you’ll need it to understand what’s going on. It seems like a lot right now and you are probably a bit scared but you will be ok hon and in a years time you’ll be doing all this stuff automatically ( Well maybe except for the Dr Midwife thing or the latex).
If this post creates more questions ask away, I’ve added you as a friend but I hope what I wrote (again) makes sense and helps you to keep being you X
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