I am notoriously bad at getting long sleeps, averaging 5 hours a night, of often broken sleep. Over the last several nights, once we are in bed, and have said good night, I have slid over next to my OH, and cuddled next to her. The action always causes an erection, but I do not try to make sexual advances, just lay there, feeling her softness, and breathing slowly. I’ll kiss her shoulder and massage her thigh, and just enjoy the moment. The cuddle usually lasts only a few minutes, then I’ll slid over to my usual spot and might take my hand and lightly touch her side, then I drop off to sleep.
I have slept every night with her in bed, and somehow feel better in the morning, and more connected through the day. Is this something that others have done ? Do you do any similar activity?
Yep, absolutely.
Yes. Actually last night for us. Got into bed, watched a bit of TV together and cuddled some. Probably could have had sex if i started it but while i wanted too it justseemed nicer to cuddle up. Turn off the lights spooned some and then off to a good night of sleep.
I’ve slept with my head on my husband’s chest for the past 18 years. When he got another poly partner, my biggest grievance wasn’t sharing his time and attention - it was that I didn’t want anyone else sleeping where I slept.
So we were out on a bicycle ride today, I mentioned sleeping better, and my theory why, the cuddles ! And asked if she liked it too. Yes, the reply. So I said I was getting aroused during it, and maybe I might want more than cuddling. Her response, you wouldn’t be able to do anything that late. So the take away was, she recognized I was aroused. And the fact a hard cock on her bum did not do anything for her.