Small wrists - flexible bondage options (beginner)

Hi
New here and bit of a noob in general.

I like being restrained but dont currently have many options (cuffs and what ever long lengths of fabric we can get hold of; nightgown ties mostly).

I have yet to purchase anything specific (bar the cuffs which are a very old and hasty purchase).

Ideally i would like flexibility in my first proper purchase.

The problem is I have skinny wrists and most options I’ve come across appear to be too large or have no dimensions listed (i suspect i could slip out of a lot of them too easily and where’s the fun in that?)

Measurements are (approx)
6" wrist
8" ankle
18" thigh (at roughly the smallest circumference)
24" waist (smallest [corsetted - its an option id like to keep open]) natural is around 26" on a ‘slim day’
Im also quite short.

Now i doubt I’m the only one with this issue so i’m hoping someone with more experience might be able to assist! Haha

Can anyone recommend a bondage range or specific product that will be suitable?

I like the idea of wrist reatraints on their own
The option to restrain wrists to another body part would be ideal (As a starting point im thinking either waist or thigh)

If this site provided a filter for dimensions I would use it, but as it stands i am struggling to find something appropriate.

Thank you in advance xx
:yum:

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This under bed restraint comes with Velcro cuffs that do go down reasonably small and do stay closed surprisingly well.

Otherwise, have you considered bondage tape? Unlike rope which takes skill from the person tying you, bondage tape is super easy. It sticks to itself, not your skin, and you can get as creative as you like with it. You can also reuse it. It will let you experiment with different restraint positions and types and then you can look for more specific products based on what you like

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Oooh…
I didnt even look at the bondage tape products so was unaware of these details.
I presumed they stuck to your skin; which didnt sound appealing haha
I shall look in to this. Thank you :smile:

It doesnt stick to skin, but to itself. Its very effective and you can be quite inventive with it.

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Helloooooo

What about rope

Welcome to the forum @AreYouInOrAreYouOut
Something like this should meet your needs:

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Look for velcro fastening items as most of them go really quite small. Also as mentioned, the bondage tape is a brilliant invention.

Hey welcome to the forum! I’d suggest satin silky ties might be a nice option to use if struggling to find anything that fits but alternatively if LH don’t have anything then you may find going to a specialist who can custom make you some if the budget allows :slightly_smiling_face:

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Ahh… they have a big “loop” range.
Presumably the tail of the rope needs to be under tension to keep the loop closed/tight?

Ropes havent been a thing i’d seriously considered as I am bobbins with tying… anything haha
The only ropes Im aware of the OH being able to tie is for rock climbing :eyes:
Should definately do some reading up :sweat_smile:

Both the Bondage Tape or satin silky ties suggested by others are both great and have the added benefit that they are quite discrete and easily packed in an overnight bag for weekends away

Glad I found this post. I’ve recently thought about trying some light bondage and being tied up is where I’d like to start. My wrists are quite small as well. I will definitely be looking into the options now that I know a bit more about the different options.