"Soft" dildo for partner

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Hello,

My partner is looking for a new dildo to replace her http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12343 which has served her for many years. ( She used it without the vibe, they make her numb)

Her problem is that she finds 9/10 dildos too "hard", more precisely the ridge of the head, she finds very incomfortable. Perhaps because she is not used to a circumcised shaft I don't know.

Does anyone share the same problems and do you have any recommendations?

Thanks in advance

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Heya,

Depends on how soft she wants it really,

They do a 'Limpy' range at one end of the scale:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2287

However I would recommend one of these if she would prefer something realistic but with a soft and flexible feel to it ^_^ and its on sale!

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22814

Hope that helps x

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Some options I can think of:

The Tantus O2 range. These dildos are made from dual density silicone which means they have a firmer silicone core with a softer, squishy outside to them, they bend and flex and can be squished slightly under your fingers, the heads are usually entirely formed using the softer layer of silicone. The Tantus Adam is probably one of the more "average sized"

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19796

On the slightly larger side, you have this gorgeous dildo from tantus O2:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22540

Now I have heard the ridges can be a challenge so you might want to think about this one but, I have linked these two above so you can watch the videos (Under the pictures) and get an idea of the squishy nature of those dildos. They are also made from high quality, body safe silicone and Tantus dildos get rave reviews all around the web. Just make sure you check out the "O2" range for that squishy, softer dildo.

Another option would be products made with "Vix skin" (Lovehoney do not seem to sell any) Another safe product that is high quality and squishy.

I recommend Tantus all the way on this one though. Yes they are slightly more expensive than some other dildos but you get what you pay for. x

4

Hello – my OH loves this toy

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22816

Its soft and you can chose to remove the vibration bit if you prefer.

5

what about a jelly feel dildo. soft and flexible. quite a few to choose from on here

www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/jelly-vibrators/

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I wouldn't go for a toy made from a jelly material as they aren't really safe to use.

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If it’s the ridge that’s causing the problem maybe something like this used over a smaller dildo could do the job?

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/penis-extenders-sleeves/p/fantasy-x-tensions-uncut-penis-enhancer-with-strap/a48540g86387.html

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I got the second one you mentioned for the wife that seemed to have a good ridge on the head. The wife is the same with dildos she finds them a bit hard. In the end I sanded the ridge down with sand paper then a smooth nail file to smooth the rubber off again and i think it’s loads better now.