This is Al’s OH writing. Has anyone else tried getting thier lovers penis IN while he’s soft? We did that yesterday. I didn’t play with him at all. I just told him to try putting it in before he got hard - he did. I could feel him getting a boner IN me! OMG! That was so hot!
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Hi, I suffer with ED so very difficult to get hard. I have never succeeded in getting it IN whilst soft.
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On the rare occasion I’m finding it more challenging to get it up I’ve still tried to put it in. More often than not it’s been unsuccessful, but if I can get the slightest of chubbs on before going then I’ll usually get there in the end.
Never tried it when not struggling already as usually if she and I have our own respective bits out I’m usually sufficiently excited!
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I’ve been blown from soft plenty of times though, and often it goes down well and I’ve heard similar feedback.
Same concept, I guess.
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Has happened before for us. Wasn’t exactly immediately hot but it soon became very hot indeed!
Gents , i cannot say this strongly enough , if you have ED of any degree and you havent been to see your GP yet , make sure its your first phone call in the morning , i learnt the hard way ( please excuse the pun )
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I have had ED for about 14 years. It is no joke. Anyone who has ever experienced it knows the upset and distress it causes. I have finally decided to pluck up the courage and talk to my GP about it. I have an appt tomorrow. I just want to enjoy some sort of sex again even if it just me on my own. I am not building my hopes up.
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Hi @user745 I have suffered about 8 years now, started just before I had my first heart attack, had another heart attack last year. It really got me down and no one was listening but 2 months ago saw a clinician and was prescribed a cream which you insert into the top of penis. Cannot have the usual tablets due to having GTN spray occasionally. The cream has definitely helped. Good luck with the doctor.
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I struggled to get it up due to alcohol consumption last weekend but eventually managed to get a relatively soft dick into my wifes butt, once in it came back to life and the feeling of growing inside was very pleasurable, didnt last long however.
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‘Thumbing it in?
I would love to do this with my Mrs at some point. I do quickly stand to attention however
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Going in soft and coming out hard is one of the best kinky feelings I can remember. One of the best is with the use of a bullet on the clit as the vagina massages the penis as it grows due to the muscle contractions.
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Out of necessity due to my recent medical issues, over a couple of years it was the only way.
Herself would have to widen up first with a big enough toy, I would then go in flaccid. Then with continuing stimulation, I would grow and eventually be able to please her very slowly and then finish.
I know that seems mechanical rather than loving, but you try the extreme pain of sex with phimosis.
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Mrs W here …
Yes this is something that Pen told me to try with Mr W and by golly it works @aljerram … I prepared myself first - you know just to open up a bit - then I got Mr W to pop in, took a bit of practice, but we got there and he then laid on me and stayed there while I did the work by using my muscles down there and he gradually expanded and got harder… it is a fantastic feeling, being poked from inside… absolutely beautiful… xx
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Wow. 
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It’s like sucking his soft penis and feeling him get stiff in your mouth! Lovely
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Sounds wonderful.
I have suffered from ED for 14 years. I have tried ordering Viagra online. After filling in the questionnaires I was told I couldn’t order because I have a heart condition. Being 71 doesn’t help either. I spoke to my GP. She is monitoring me at the moment. I am off my prostate pills, increased my anti depressants and wants to track my blood pressure. I won’t be getting my hopes up or anything else.
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I have tried this a few times, hubby is about 7 inches soft so i prefer it to be honest 
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Never managed this, the OH’s pussy seems to reject anything which isn’t fully erect.
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We’ve done this a few times. It’s tough when I am struggling to stay properly hard and wife is working toward her O as even if I do get in soft or semi I tend to get squeezed out when she’s close to cumming. We’ve had a few times going in soft after she’s cum, either from being or in more of a “plow” pose if your familiar with that yoga form.
The other thing I really enjoy doing if I’m struggling to get/stay hard is take her prone from behind with a dildo in her pussy with her Melt on her clit. I thrust onto the dildo with my pubis to help her out and in the process often get myself softly into her vagina along with the dildo which usually leads to an erection for me. We’ve had incidental double vaginal penetration that way al on a couple of occasions. Once she was so into it she didn’t even realize that’s what had happened until we were both done. Other times she puts an end to it as soon as I’m hard.
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