That one linked feels like I could snap it with minimal force, doesnt move with the body at all, and doesnt feel good going in.
Looking at the realistic dildo section of the online store, they all say they are firm, just like the linked one.
Just looking for something that follows the bodies lead alot more naturally.
My most realistic dildo without question is this one. It is dual density so plenty of flex and has a surface that moves freely (you can also just do a search of dual density to get a similar selection of flexible dildos if a foreskin is not for you). If you scroll down (from the link here you’ll probably have to refresh the page to show pictures, videos and reviews) you can watch the product video (not the one included with the photos that shows nothing!) This video shows the full flex and movement. There are also really good reviews from @Blonde_Bunny and @wildflower on page 4.
On the non realistic front I have this one, but in the blue star version rather the pink hearts which I can’t find on the AU site. It is desribed as “liquid silicone” and has lots of flex.
In terms of others, I have heard very good things about the feel of the Vixen VixSkin range but they have a very high price tag and I’ve no personal experience, they do look fantastic though.
Dual density is the way forward for sure! The first one @Peitho linked to we have too and it is great even the suction cup seems to hold quite well for a second choice the
Is great a nice heavy feel with plenty of flex and vibrations
I believe that, yes, that one will be just as flexible just without the moving outer but it will be flexible .
The pink hearts is absolutely as flexible, it just doesn’t have quite as squishy a surface. I find it’s slightly more grippy than some silicone dildos and the dual density ones but if you have lube this will be no problem at all .
The long hand way of the short links is square brackets around the text you want to make a link followed by (with no space) normal curved brackets around the link however the forum has a very nice little feature where if you copy the link you can then just highlight over the text you want to make a link and paste and it will create it all for you . So [link text](link address) or highlight and paste which will produce the same thing but is just quicker. Final way, click on the link icon which opens up this window, put the address in the top and whatever text you want in the bottom and again it creates the right bracket formular for you. Hope that helps.
Same flexibility but without the loose skin is what Im after :3
Thank you so much for your info.
I think I’ll go with the dual density based on yours and one other recommendation.
And ofcourse I have lube wouldnt use a toy without it.
I second the Doc Johnson realistic Signature Cocks line! I have the Small Hands version and it’s honestly my absolute fav
Dual density, flexible, and honestly just feels amazing!
We also like that one. Soft, squishy, flexes, and a smoother silicone finish with very little drag (although it can go a little on the sticky side if you thrust a lot without re-lubing).
I really need something soft too. I have vaginal issues. The lube I use is awesome but would like something which is really flexible and soft. With a little ‘give’’. I’m a menopausal lady.
Hi @Gracefull I’d look for anything that says it is dual density or liquid silicone. Dual density will have a liquid silicone, squishy outer layer and a firmer but usually still flexible core. Most of the liquid silicone, super soft ones are the same soft material all the way through and are flexible but i find this means less pressure on the g-spot so it depends what you’re looking for.
Other things to consider are that vibrating dildos can help the muscles to relax making it easier to insert but on the other hand, the motor can make the core of the dildo harder and less flexible.
I have issues with penetration too (not menopause though) and i find dildos with pronounced heads more difficult and uncomfortable to use so it might be worth looking for one with a less obvious ridge.
Finally, I know you said soft, but personally I find a narrow glass dildo easier and more comfortable to insert than a silicone one because, with a bit of lube, it just glides in with very little effort. They also tend to be narrower because they feel bigger than they really are and curved to hit the g-spot. It might be worth considering if you find silicone a bit grippy and not smooth enough.
No worries I hope you find one that works for you. It is a bit of trial and error, some you’ll love, others not so much. Don’t forget that LH have a 100 day money back promise for toys that you don’t get on with. I haven’t used it much but occasionally I’ve needed to and it’s reassuring to know it’s there especially if buying something expensive!
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. So [link text](link address) or highlight and paste which will produce the same thing but is just quicker. Final way, click on the link icon which opens up this window, put the address in the top and whatever text you want in the bottom and again it creates the right bracket formular for you. Hope that helps.
I hope you find one that works for you. It is a bit of trial and error, some you’ll love, others not so much. Don’t forget that LH have a 100 day money back promise for toys that you don’t get on with. I haven’t used it much but occasionally I’ve needed to and it’s reassuring to know it’s there especially if buying something expensive!