Hi all am a bit stuck and may be u can help
Have been married 18 years but my oh sex drive has been getting less and less to the point she is more interested in watching recorded programs than coming to bed if I suggest an early night I know the kids are more demanding as they get older and I am working a lot to make ends meat ( more than I should ) and am not looking for sex when I go to bed but my oh says she is tired and feels drained but will stay up till 1 ish in the morning instead of coming to bed with me she has put on weight that she finds hard to loose since the children but I don't have a problem with that but she does and now it just seems like she has given up on every thing have tried doing what I can around the house running baths for her and trying to make her feel special but nothing seems to make a difference !!!
Any advice would be great full
Thank u in advance