She's chatting up the bartender.
A http://www.menshealth.com/cda/article.do?site=MensHealth&channel=sex.relationships&category=seduction&conitem=c7de5ebb9c095110VgnVCM10000013281eac____ can hardly contain herself. She won't let a male waiter or bartender take her order without flashing a smile and saying something silly, like, "What can you make me that would be really yummy?"
She's scanning the room.
When women go out to http://www.menshealth.com/cda/article.do?site=MensHealth&channel=sex.relationships&category=hooking.up&conitem=0818e918e02c9010VgnVCM200000cee793cd____, they have blinders on. If they're not looking around, don't bug them. But when they want to mingle, they'll be scanning for cute men. They may even sit facing the room instead of each other.
She's playing games.
Darts, pool, pinball — women know this makes them easier to approach. That's why they do it. It's easy to get a man's attention when you're about to jab him in the ribs with a http://www.menshealth.com/cda/article.do?site=MensHealth&channel=guy.wisdom&category=howto.guides&conitem=1e1add88aabc3010VgnVCM200000cee793cd____.
Her drink is big, frozen, and blue.
She's ready to party, which means meeting new people and having a good time, not getting naked with the first guy who http://www.menshealth.com/eatthis/cocktails.html. But sometimes it does mean getting naked with the first hot, cool guy who buys her another round.
She sends you a Zoolander eye lock.
And the http://www.menshealth.com/cda/article.do?site=MensHealth&channel=sex.relationships&category=hooking.up&conitem=29321fbc46056010VgnVCM100000cfe793cd____, and/or at least two smiles (full, open-lipped, teeth smiles). Go over there and talk to her already. Caveat: There's a small chance she just thinks you're funny looking, but go ahead, have some balls. She's worth it.
Her pupils are dilated.
If she's feeling stimulated by you (not just sexually), her pupils will dilate. That's because her http://www.menshealth.com/cda/article.do?site=MensHealth&channel=sex.relationships&category=better.sex&conitem=9d160a4de3626010VgnVCM200000cee793cd____ to want to see more of whatever's exciting her, so her brain tells her irises to let in more light. Time to make your move.
She lets you get close.
As you flirt, stand or sit within 6 inches of her. If she seems unruffled, http://www.menshealth.com/cda/article.do?site=MensHealth&channel=sex.relationships&category=seduction&conitem=e7ac512b74147110VgnVCM10000013281eac____. Eventually you want your thigh to be pressed against hers, whether you're standing or sitting. If she's into it, she won't back off.
She's a chatterbox.
If she leans forward when you're talking or asks you endless questions, the only way to shut her up is to http://www.menshealth.com/cda/article.do?site=MensHealth&channel=sex.relationships&category=better.sex&conitem=1e9e4cb99d0f4110VgnVCM20000012281eac____.
She uses her tongue.
A make-out session is a prerequisite to any sexual proposition. Kiss her lips softly and note how intensely http://www.menshealth.com/cda/advicedetail.do?site=MensHealth&channel=sex.relationships&category=better.sex&conitem=cdf39cea5d982110VgnVCM20000012281eac____&expertId=52e3b0a338243010VgnVCM100000cfe793cd____. You want the "I want to eat you alive" kind of kiss, not the sweet "I'm not a dirty girl" kind of kiss.
She's wearing thigh-high stockings.
Women only wear http://www.menshealth.com/cda/article.do?site=MensHealth&channel=sex.relationships&category=better.sex&conitem=1c56fac22afd8010VgnVCM100000cfe793cd____ when they're expecting a man to see them. If she's wearing a thong, she's trying to avoid panty lines, but sex is on her mind, too. Anything black, red, pink, leopard print, or lace equals "I want you."