New & enjoyed: Vaginal stretching — it sounds like it would be painful, like it should be painful, but it is so, so pleasurable for me.
My “meh” activity: Anal play — it’s just a great big nothing burger for me. It does make me more horny, but that’s ptobably because it feels “naughty”. After a while it feels painful and I can’t wait to get the bloody plug out, and kept out!
Won’t do again: Swallowing semen — Look, I know some guys love it, but my body violently disagrees. The last time I tried swallowing a load, my body forcefully ejected it through my nose and all over his stomach, which wasn’t fun for either of us. Facials are fine and fun, but I’d rather not roll the dice again, just in case lunch comes with it next time…
Thank you for sharing! I definitely think for us that anal is more of an alluring act together. I do anal stuff solo but we haven’t really done anything together. We’ve talked about it and tease with some of it but no full blown, take it home activities.
We have “cum kissed” a few times lately and kind of gotten into cum play. No creampie eating yet. I’m definitely liking it so far.
My take it or leave it recently would be nipple play on me. After kids, her nipples are a no fly zone and understandably so. She has tried some nipple play on me and I’m not quite sure how I like it so far.
I don’t have a tried and hate it recently. We are not crazy adventurers per se but there is nothing recently that we’ve tried where I would not try it a second time.
New & enjoyed: Pegging is out newest venture and we both really enjoy it and Mrs C watching me play with my arse.
My “meh” activity: Anything that is not for us doesn’t get done again so nothing for this question
Won’t do again: Giving Mrs C a facial whej I was being dominant. It was both our first time but it felt too degrading to do it and I felt bad afterwards. Mrs C also isn’t a fan of the clean up so never again.
Hmm a few things I’ve tried in the past that was new was soft play wrestling in singlets, sounding, and fisting someone… all were quite exciting and defo something I’d consider trying again if the opportunity arises.
Whole range of kinky things that 20 year old me would have (or definitely did, per my wife’s memory) balked at. Anal play including sex, pegging, and masturbation, is a big one. Wife definitely remembers the first time she suggested using a finger at my backdoor and how shocked/appalled I was, but know I love being pegged.
Not necessarily surprising on its own, but the degree to which I love when my wife really plays the domme is more extreme than I would have expected when younger. And same the comfort and enjoyment of truly degrading dirty talk that she likes to receive when I’m domming.
Giving anilingus: I don’t have any real problem with it but wife didn’t get a whole lot out of it (whereas I love having my ass eaten), so that probably won’t happen.
Honestly I can’t think of anything that we were like “never again” on the basis of enjoyment. I’ve been porn-sober for 6 years, so watching porn together is unlikely to be back on the table for us, though it would surely be enjoyable.
One of our favorite roleplays was teacher/schoolgirl, but our own kids are now school aged and it put wifey off of it. Another one she liked was boss and secretary, but the last time we did it some of the language I used in the roleplaying sounded too much like some things that had been said to her right before she was let go from a job (not sexy, just coincidental) and it kinda put us off those things. Maybe they’ll come back around at some point.
Pegging. Not been doing it that long really compared to other kinks. Had tried some light (male) anal play and indulged in “normal” anal sex and I’ve no idea where the idea of trying pegging came from but it’s now a regular thing. I think like a lot of people we assumed it was only of interest to gay men but having tried it, we both love it. I think it’s the role reversal domination thing.
New and “Yeah, whatever”.
Wearing latex. Looks great in photos. Real life is just one big faff of talc, lube and polish followed by feeling shrink-wrapped. Granted once it’s on it looks, feels, smells and sounds amazing but even very gentle lazy sex is far too hot.
Tried it. Never again.
Roman showers. In a nutshell….puking over one another. Yep, it’s as gross as it sounds but it’s something we wanted to try so we could make up our own minds. We get messy a lot as part of our sploshing kink so this seemed like just another angle on that. Took a LOT of prep, physically and mentally, probably a year of thinking about it, nearly trying it, then shelving it for a bit before finally going for it. Started out ok, and I’ll admit seeing OH’s eyes watering, her cheeks bulging and then feeling the stinging heat filling her mouth as she mega-deep throated me to the point of puking was a raw, almost sub-conscious thrill although I just cannot explain why. Likewise, bringing myself to puke over her tits felt strangely erotic despite being really quite disgusting. Maybe the Romans were on to something? Whatever, we just ended up feeling rotten. Needless to sat it stank, even though we just used plain milk and yoghurt, we both had that post-puking burning feeling in the mouth and nose and generally felt so groggy afterwards, like the morning after a night on the beer.
A one off was a guy we had been chatting to wanted to hook up, loved seeing pics of oh and we all talked on phone as he wanked off. Met up and he wanted to fuck me while oh talked dirty to him. Was different as he wanted to bang her too, but really wanted to fuck me. We did it, was different but variety is spice of life. Left him the panties she wore as he wanted them to wank into at some point
Probably bringing toys into the bedroom together. I used to think toys were more of a solo thing and wasn’t really sure what they would add for us as a couple. Once we actually tried it together though, completely changed my mind Now I’m wondering why I was ever hesitant about it.
I have been trying to get my OH interested in exploring various toys, with little success. I really think they could heighten our pleasure, certainly give us more options for times when intercourse is not desired. I was listening to a podcast about butt play yesterday, and it gave me some motivation to try to incorporate that into our playbook. With both of us sometimes struggling to achieve orgasm, adding some anal stimulus might be a way of turning up the heat. Being very conservative with sex has really limited our potential for having more ways of pleasuring each other and our selves.
New and enjoyed: Eating ass. Was always hesitant, then one day I just went for it and loved it.
Would try again: Eating my cum out of my wife. Always lost the desire to try this after I’d cum, so one time I got her to shuffle up onto my face after I’d cum in her. Didn’t enjoy how messy it was, but would give it another try if she was laying on her back and it was just dribbling out of her.
Wouldn’t try again: Don’t think anything has fit this category yet.