I really enjoy stingy toys that make that lovely little sharp sound but I want to leave my sub bruised and imagine more of a thuddy toy would be better for this.
I was wondering which toys others have tried and tested that they can recommend for me to get the result of a multicoloured bum?
Did you see the recent tester that looked like a bamboo chopping board? I imagine that would have the desired effect. Just make sure it is the desired effect of the owner of the bottom in question too!
This is great for a sting and some pretty little bruises too.
Also extremely versatile fir tickles and sensual play plus hot/cold.
I did see the bamboo paddle but forgot about it until now, will have to take a second look. Yes of course, the bottom owner is very happy with any non-permanent marking :)
Some lovely budget friendly options there, thank you for that and also for the birthday wishes!
As long as your sub is happy, I think its not what you use, but maybe how you use it.
A little harder, over a longer period of time should cause some bruises.
Something like a paddle may make a larger round bruise, however depending on your aim, something like a cane could cause stripey pattern bruises.
I'm with sub on this, we have it and it gives a good sting and some cute bruises (not sure cute is the right word but they're nice little bruises. Not big massive ones lol)Sum Sub wrote:
This is great for a sting and some pretty little bruises too.
Oh and happy bdizzle
Also extremely versatile fir tickles and sensual play plus hot/cold.
Probably one of the "best "ways of getting bruises from impact play is with the use of the cane .
You would need to learn how to use it properly as well as accidental misplaced stroke could lead to damage on your partners body.
For us the cane is a step to far and its beyond our boundaries .
WE use a paddle over a session during the evening
if used lightly over a time it will bring up brusing on bottom tops of my legs and back
must say dont like it too much on my breasts,need to be in the mood for breast brusing
jill
mysteron wrote:
Probably one of the "best "ways of getting bruises from impact play is with the use of the cane .
You would need to learn how to use it properly as well as accidental misplaced stroke could lead to damage on your partners body.
For us the cane is a step to far and its beyond our boundaries .
+1 to this. My OH also uses a quite heavy braided crop which stings like hell and leaves amazing welts and bruises which lasts for days. Gets me excited thinking about it.
My riding crop leaves welts which eventually make weird bruises with a hole in the middle.
His belt leaves nice bruises depending on how long I last and the buckle leaves similar bruises to the crop.
Things with a larger surface area tend to be too spread out whereas too thin a surface area leads to cuts rather than bruises.
It also depends on the person, when I first started playing, my butt was bruised completely with a few lashes of the strap and now it takes forever to even go slightly red. I barely ever bruise :(
I had bruises left on my bottom after leather belt was used on me. So no exactly a sex toy, but effective too. And I could feel the effect when sitting down the next morning obviously (not that I minded that much ).
I should add I do bruise easily and sometimes I have little clue how I got those bruises.But when it comes to spanking, the belt was the most effective when it came to bruising.
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@Pinkbee
In my experience any impact on "cold" i.e. previously untouched skin is most likely to bruise, as the OH cannot carry any marks we carefully warm her up starting with spanking and paddling etc. Resulting she can now enjoy a hard caning without bruising or marking for any length of time.
The energy transferred from an impact is determined by how hard you hit but a smaller contact area intensifies damage so thinner canes or crops bite harder than thick ones. Heavier ones though will tend to deliver more punch though which can cause deeper bruising of the underlying flesh meaning that there are no marks but they get a pleasant little reminder of what you did to them for a few days afterwards every time they sit down 
I love the surprise of finding a bruise the next day (especially from a bite) and anytime you feel it remembering what caused it...
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The best bruises I've had have been from caning! I had an arse of varying colours for 2 and a half weeks. The main thing with canes is not to go anywhere near bone, canes can easily chip bone. So avoid lower back, and from the knee down (thighs are fine). Obviously it's something you both learn, how to give it and take it, so start slow, the bruises will come!
Naughty Miss K wrote:
The best bruises I've had have been from caning! I had an arse of varying colours for 2 and a half weeks. The main thing with canes is not to go anywhere near bone, canes can easily chip bone. So avoid lower back, and from the knee down (thighs are fine). Obviously it's something you both learn, how to give it and take it, so start slow, the bruises will come!
GREAT advice for anyone thinking of taking up caning
one time my wife whiped and slapped my bottom and cock so hard the bruising was still on my cock a week later