Me and my husband are working on stretching his anus to take bigger and wider dildos when pegging
He loves being pegged after a good hard spank using a paddle or cane - but I ask is it ok to administer the spanking while he wears his butt plug
I ask as today I removed his plug and he was able to take a really thick dildo almost with no issue - but half a hour later he was closed up again and could only peg him with his training dildo
Yes, usually it’s completely fine. As long as the plug has a flared base so the A&E unit haven’t got something to giggle about on their next coffee break!
Happy spanking 
@batjamboree hi thanks for the advice yesterday OH is considering using a butt plug and pegging
@batjamboree It is fine. In fact, it provides an interesting twisting sensation on the butt plug, so the feeling of the swat is transferred deeper into the ass. Would recommend.
Depending on what you already have in your toy box might I suggest a simple friend to keep in while you next swing away.
Also if you are not caning or going across the cheeks but using a crop or flogger. Something a little more powerful to test the limits.
And once settled into the routine and the jewels are to be played with too.
Not forgetting when separated and you need to instruct punishment from a distance over video conferencing. And hubby self flagellates and you watch your handy work.
@batjamboree sorry for the last msg i dontknow what happend to the txt but it should have read
Thanks for the advice the OH is considering a butt plug and pegging
@AWB1955 - let us know how it goes
As per this thread my husband today tried the 10 inch dildo which is 1.75 inch thick - and it went in so easy after I removed his butt plug
On Friday we have a long session planned - dressed up spanked and pegged - my I’m using the new 10 inch all being well
Being longer I can get more thrust and when this is done it rubs against his prostate which he loves - but for me looks and feels so good
Good luck talking to your man - it can be difficult to get around the gay attitude- but remember this is your bedroom and it’s not something you would shout out and tell the neighbours- he will love it when he starts 
@KinkyMira - I find your input so good - keep it up as I relay on your experience
Just want to be the best dominatrix a wife could be - my husband is very willing but he needs to stretch his ass
Amusingly been there and the way it makes the partner twitch has caused it to shoot out at quite rapid speed when hit hard enough.