Spreader bar size...is bigger really better?

So, 12”, 16”, 20”, expanding…there are basically alot of options out there. Is a wider spread better? Does getting an expanding one mean its less durable?
I keep looking at the FSOG one and the faux snake skin one (as i know theyr nice sets) but theyr 20” and 16”
Is it worthwhile getting a larger or expanding one?

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I think its down to personal preference and what you want to use it for. Mine is over 20 inches expanded. I want it so while I’m restrained he can get to everything. I’m a big girl so from a reality point of view my legs need to be spread wider as I have big thighs but as it adjustable if he just wants me bent over for spanking it can be used for that also.

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It’s all going to depend on the individual, some people have got longer legs, some people might be more flexible. A bigger one isn’t going to be better if it’s too wide to fit your legs in comfortably. Try spreading your legs to a comfortable position and measure the distance between your ankles

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Same here, I have one that’s just a little too short, if I was buying again I’d go for the longest I could find!

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It’s a personal preference. The longer the bar, the less able you’ll be to close your thighs but having your legs too wide (for you) will stretch your muscles and may become uncomfortable and not in a good way.

I’m not really sure 4 inches is going to make a big difference either way though so I’d say go with the one you like the look of most.

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@Calie @Cassii @Kh1985 @Very-Ape thanks guys, going to go get the tape measure and experiment as suggested, but expandable sounds like a good plan. That way if its not right i can at least adjust it. I am of the long legged variety to possibly need something a tad bigger :grinning_face_with_smiling_eyes:

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