The last while my OH is really enjoying sex and its been really good! And she is being more open what she likes and what she is enjoying which is great for me to see
Foreplay is really good and she likes me using my fingers and bullet and she is experiencing orgasm.
Regarding the next stage (squirting) we get to a stage where she is aroused , wet and well lubricated , there is a squelching sound… but she get so aroused she says she is getting very tickly on certains areas, and needs to pee and stop…alot of giggling but she is too sensitive at this point in certain areas.
Just wondering how do we go to the next stage ! Is it a point that instead on stopping at the pee sensation , does she need to relax and instead of holding in the pee sensation she needs to push the sensation …or is this wrong ! Or what advice can people give to get to the next stage…
When my wife and I explored squirting she explained it very similar. That she had been getting to the pee feeling and stopping. She said, now when she gets there she begins pushing or baring down on her vaginal muscles, almost like she’s trying to push something out of her. I can usually feel this while I’m fingering her and I know she’s close. Her vagina will become ver red and puffy and she’ll pull my fingers out and squirt, sometimes further than others. Good luck!
Wow, glad you posted this, I definitely as ive gotten older have more of that need to pee sensation and even when i relax nothing comes out, i didn’t realise i would need to “push” i assumed it was a natural gush so therefore it didnt work for me. I’ve often thought if i was to push something may come out but like i say ive held back as i assumed either your body did it itself or not.
Im going to explore more!
I was always the same, then I just beard down and didn’t worry and squirted … my partner loves it! It does get pretty messy from time to time. I have squirted or gushed 7 times in one sexual session before … and I did think the more it happens the more fluid there becomes but last few times not been too messy so maybe somthing to do with hydration? I dunno she just needs to push down when she gets that feeling and over time the feeling isn’t sooo bad
That makes two of us! Lol
Yeah, my wife learning to squirt has been a very connected experience and has allowed us to open up with each other more and find more fun ways to connect.