The OH and myself was talking about squirting after seeing some debatable squirting on a porno! She said if it was possible she would like to try to squirt, she's not sure if she's been close as she has had a sensation like she was gonna pee before whilst I've been playing with her g-spot but because it felt wrong she slowed down what I was doing,
Has anyone got any advice/techniques they could share with us plz and also was the sensation she felt possibly the start of squirting?
Many thanks.
That feeling is definitely the start of squirting :) she needs to really relax when she starts feeling this..
It's weird coz I only orgasm if I am wound up but can only squirt if I'm relaxed. As long as she goes bathroom before then there is nothing to worry about, can put a towel down if she wants too! Xx
Cheers Kitten, I didn't realise she had got so close as she only admitted it during a session on Sunday night! if she had relaxed it would probably shocked us both! lol
:-XHaha! It's really hard to relax when you feel that it's so off putting... But worth it! Except my boyfriend hates it, I told him last night that I worked out how to do it like on cue rather than sporadically every bazillion years, and he was like ugggggh... Unsure.. Xxx
Can you do it solo then Kitten? XxMissChar wrote:
Haha! It's really hard to relax when you feel that it's so off putting... But worth it! Except my boyfriend hates it, I told him last night that I worked out how to do it like on cue rather than sporadically every bazillion years, and he was like ugggggh... Unsure..
Yup I've only ever done it with a partner once actually, maybe coz I can feel how close I am when I do it so its easier? At the moment now I've worked it out I use the Tracey cox pink glass dildo from the set, and I warm it up it water first. Use a bullet as well for a bit and just go for it!! :D xx
Cool Kitten, do you think a g-spot vibe would do the same as she has one of those? xx
Yeah I would say so! A lot of people seem to have squirted using g spot vibes so as long as its decent and it works for her just generally I would think so :) xx
Cool, looks like tonights activities are planned! :-x
Oh also ive read about putting pressure on the pelvic bone with the palm of your hand whilst playing with the g-spot, Is this right, has anyone tried this?
Yup well I do that to myself and it helps the feeling. I push down with the palm of my hand while using a bullet, then use my other hand with the gspot toy x
Thanks Kitten, where would we be with out you! Lol :-xx
At first it felt weird ,i held back id stop play time,as i felt like i needed to wet myself ,and that put me off, because im like laying back thinking ,oh no no stop im going to wet myself how embarrasing, so i would move positions and stop what i was doing or what my oh was doing, it really helps to relax and just chill, my main thing that always stopped me relaxing, was the dreaded im going to wet myself its a no what will my oh say,but last week i was tied up and couldnt move, i had no other option but just to let it go and well it did and it was so weird and yet so nice i was sat in a puddle and it was warm and nice and didnt smell like wee and after investigation it was not wee lol i had squirted and im addicted to it now i love the feeling and the sitting in the puddle but i just cant relax enough to do it again grrrr
once you get over the im going to wet myself thats when you can enjoy squirting :) i know i do now
Well I have to use my new on cue squirting for some kind of good seeing the OH don't like it! X
You guys are making me really want to squirt! But I can't, I've tried it so many times and it just doesn't work, I swear I just don't have a g-spot or it doesn't work like everyone elses haha
Thanks HP Babe, think thats gonna be the challenge to get her to relax, like you say if it feels wrong you tense up and thats exactly what she does, :-xHeavens Poison wrote:
At first it felt weird ,i held back id stop play time,as i felt like i needed to wet myself ,and that put me off, because im like laying back thinking ,oh no no stop im going to wet myself how embarrasing, so i would move positions and stop what i was doing or what my oh was doing, it really helps to relax and just chill, my main thing that always stopped me relaxing, was the dreaded im going to wet myself its a no what will my oh say,but last week i was tied up and couldnt move, i had no other option but just to let it go and well it did and it was so weird and yet so nice i was sat in a puddle and it was warm and nice and didnt smell like wee and after investigation it was not wee lol i had squirted and im addicted to it now i love the feeling and the sitting in the puddle but i just cant relax enough to do it again grrrr
once you get over the im going to wet myself thats when you can enjoy squirting :) i know i do now
My OH was convinced the g-spot was a myth as we'd never found it! Once we did find it there's been no stopping her! Lol Oh and it does feel like about where is they descibe Hun! XPinkPolkaDot wrote:
You guys are making me really want to squirt! But I can't, I've tried it so many times and it just doesn't work, I swear I just don't have a g-spot or it doesn't work like everyone elses haha
The pressure helps, its like when you are pregnant, and the baby presses down on your cervix ,which makes your waters break ,squirting actually feels the same as your waters breaking
i really hope that you both get to try it soon, if she can get over that feeling to tense up and stop, it then it will be great for her and you it sure is fun ,i love it because its like when you leading up to the big Oooooo and bang you orgasam that feeling you get after i get the same feeling after i squirt its like a big release of pelasure
Thanks HP babe! God I hope it happens for us too! Lol ;-xHeavens Poison wrote:
The pressure helps, its like when you are pregnant, and the baby presses down on your cervix ,which makes your waters break ,squirting actually feels the same as your waters breaking
i really hope that you both get to try it soon, if she can get over that feeling to tense up and stop, it then it will be great for her and you it sure is fun ,i love it because its like when you leading up to the big Oooooo and bang you orgasam that feeling you get after i get the same feeling after i squirt its like a big release of pelasure
Well it sounds like she’s well on her way to experiencing it. The most important thing is not to force it, but relax into it. Make sure she has emptied her bladder before you begin to play and then when she gets the ‘need to pee’ feeling she’ll know it’s just her fluid not urine.
As for toys, anything that stimulates her in the right way will work. Fingers, G-spot toys, glass dildos all work. For me I need something flexible, although I’ve not tried glass.
I personally never get a huge amount of fluid (I think this varies a lot person to person) and I can generally only manage it following a clitoral orgasm first. When it happens it’s not an orgasm like feeling for me, it’s nice, but in a different way.
PPD, keep playing you never know what might happen. There are times it just doesn’t happen at all for me, like for months (you know like those periods when your orgasms vanish), so there’s nothing to say this won’t appear for you. In the mean time have fun exploring. You too Yes Man.