Squirting question for women

Hey,

So I have been practicing trying to make my wife squirt for a few years now on and off. 3 weeks ago she made it happen :sweat_smile:

I unlocked her gspot with practice a steady pressing movement with 1 or 2 fingers over the porn fast up and down. This was key along with a battery powered magic wand that is our new toy. This lets her have multiple orgasms while I hit her gspot and I believe it is a must for getting her to squirt.

Since then she has done really well. On our last proper session she squirted 4 times in a row and it has been fantastic. On her last orgasm she dresnched the place and it squirted more than gushed. Fwiw even if it is pee it doesn’t bother me, I know someone will say you shouldn’t get a lot of volume with squirt.

I have read that women find it easier to squirt once they get more comfortable and the volume also increases. My wife says she still finds she has to concentrate to do it but she seems to be doing well.

I know each woman is different but how long did it take you to get comfortable till you stopped thinking about it. Or so you always have to think about it. Also did you find your volume or strength of the squirt increased?

My wife really wants to squirt all over my face but I have a feeling she needs gspot attention and that will be kinda hard while she is on top :sweat_smile:

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My wife says it’s a bubble that needs to burst and she can burst that bubble several times

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I find the combination of clit and g spot stimulation can make me squirt quite quickly. Intense clitoral stimulation will make me squirt but it takes a little longer.

No concentration needed, just relaxing and enjoying the stimulation :melting_face: With each time I squirt in a session it does get greater in volume, peaks and then gets less again as the stimulation becomes almost torture :rofl:

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Mrs W here…..

As said I have said before, I don’t “squirt” like Trafalgar Square fountains but “gush” more like a breached dam ….. a “gush” can happen a number of times, I think the maximum I have achieved in one session (with Pen) is seven, but four is “usual” …. when I originally started trying to squirt with Mr W, the goal became further away, then by forgetting the goal, relaxing and enjoying the feelings being experienced, the “goal” just happened (as a gush) - we used finger(s) on G-spot plus wand on clitoral area …. by the time Pen arrived on the scene, my gushes with Mr W were “common”, but not as common as when with Pen and the language we both use when heading towards a gush is extremely common :rofl: ……. xx

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Thanks for the replies. On the last squirt/gush of the night my wife squirted/gushed the most. At that point she was spread out saying please no more with enjoyment.

Then in the morning she said she would have been able for another but it would break her :grinning_face_with_smiling_eyes:

Fast forward to now we have dinner on order and she is dressed up on the :wine_glass:. Maybe I will try break that barrier and see what happens :grin:

Hopefully like Apolloswallows it will get easier for her to forget about and just do it naturally.

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My wife was 70 before she started squirting.

Before that she had been holding back as she thought she was going to wee.

Once she caught on and just let go it became a regular thing.

G spot stimulation doesn’t do it for her but extended clitoral edging does.

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I need both clit and gspot stimulation to be ready to squirt and then just g spot for the final trigger. I do think it depends on how hydrated you are, so drinking throughout a sex session will help keep the volume Relaxation is the key rather than concentration and not worrying if it’s wee!!

I have a g spot vibrator that works well, she could use one while kneeling over your face while you reap the benefits :sweat_droplets:

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My wife exactly. She gushes, many times it’s quite a bit. My wife has always squirted. When we got together 42 years ago this term wasn’t being used and there was no talk about female ejaculation. I just thought, knowing all women/people are different that she would just get extremely excited and wet. Having only had a few lovers before her I wasn’t all that experienced and my wife was a virgin so for her she thought it was just normal for her. Twenty plus years later is when we started hearing about women squirting and female ejaculation. My wife now prefers anal sex over PIV and she will orgasm during anal but won’t squirt. She will only squirt during anal if she is also using a toy on her P at the same time. It’s interesting how people are made different and some women have never squirted, some have learned how over time and others like my wife have always squirted or for us gushed. It’s always been a major turn on for me especially during oral to have her gush while going down on her or during PIV and feeling my cock and balls literally soaked in her cum. It’s one reason I like to keep myself shaved. My wife gets turned on by it, saying she loves the way it feels when she keeps cumming and it’s dripping and flowing down her ass.

Sorry if I just started rambling on, wife and I talk about this often, because of how squirting is a big thing now, but when we were young no one talked about or knew about it. We’re glad to see over the years how the topics around sex are so much more talked about and discussed than previous, especially here in the states.

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Just FYI, sex educator Tristan Taormino did a DVD on this, “Expert Guide to the G-Spot” (2008). It is available from the Adult DVD Marketplace website.

She needs something to burst that bubble,either electric or real both have a point in which to burst it,. :heart::heart::heart:

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