Mine doesn't smell like urine and can sometimes be quite thick, like boy cum. It also doesn't necessarily happen in tandem with a conventional muscle contracting orgasm - sounds like you may have squirted AA, but my bottom line is, as long as you had a good time and feel satisfied, who cares?!
SS xx
Ad got really wet last night from some lovely G-spot play and licking. She often gets weeter with something inside her... as SS said, squirt or just come who cares if it was good!
ive read loads about squirting and me and my partner have tryed different things to make me come but how do you know that you have comed when its your first time ? my partner has fingered me and pushed his fingers up on my g-spot and its felt amazing and he said he could feel loads of liquid rush down and i couldnt feel any liquid the only time i can feel some liquid apear is when i finger my self but the liquid aint alot and it feels alittle bit thicker then my normal wetness so does this mean that ive comed?
hi there dont konw if this as all ready been asked? my wife has squirted twice in all the time we have been together i dont no if it was sumthing i did difrent or she just rexlaxed and let it happen.
so i gess im asking can you stop it happening or does it just happen if you hit the right spot so to speak?
can you control it?
Woohoo this happened to me today, was something I had always wondered about but never happened, I wondered if I self-consciously stopped it scared of what may happen if let myself go over that "edge", this time, I was having a great relaxed day with lots of sex, so had already cum a few times, and my partner def knew what to do
Oh my god, it felt wierd, but a really good weird, and I can't wait for it to happen again.
Like Loves Huni says I think the key is definitely being relaxed and not trying too hard.
Congratulations, I'm very jealous. It seems a lot of OA members have reported squirtage after taking time to get there. I think I need to stop pressuring myself to 'perform' and pencil in a weekend for the search...
Thanks Tigerlilies, without giving too much info, not sure on the etiquette bout that, but we had been on it, so to speak, on and off for about 6 hours and think I was as relaxed as its possible to be, I wasn't even thinking about it, my partner just started and after a while, it happened, and if am honest, more than once, which was all very weird, I wonder if somehow I kind of cut myself off the first time, if that makes sense?
But a weekend for the search seems a great plan
I won't press for naughty details but if you don't mind divulging... may I ask if you got there from clitoral or internal stimulation? Or was it just the whole shebang that was hitting the spot?
I was suprised to learn from a friend that her first squirt came from clitoral fun alone but then maybe the psychological stuff is the biggest part. The 'letting go' part can be a tricky one.
I don't mind at all, I just didnt want to say too much, wasnt sure on the etiquette, perhaps I should read the rules..lol
He was using his fingers on my g-spot mainly and my clit sometimes but also pressing down on my pubic bone at the same time, which seemed to make a difference oddly... or perhaps not, I dont know enough about it really, like I say its never happened to me before and ashamedly I am nearly 40.... Hopefully now it has, it will continue as now I've "done" it, I feel more able to let go, cos whatever I was scared of happening didnt happen, if that makes sense....
Definitely being relaxed is the thing I think...
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I don't mind at all, I just didnt want to say too much, wasnt sure on the etiquette, perhaps I should read the rules..lol
He was using his fingers on my g-spot mainly and my clit sometimes but also pressing down on my pubic bone at the same time, which seemed to make a difference oddly... or perhaps not, I dont know enough about it really, like I say its never happened to me before and ashamedly I am nearly 40.... Hopefully now it has, it will continue as now I've "done" it, I feel more able to let go, cos whatever I was scared of happening didnt happen, if that makes sense....
Definitely being relaxed is the thing I think...
Oooh, that is fascinating about the pubic bone. Thank you for sharing. Some people have said that pressing that general area is good for relaxing the tummy muscles and thus easier to relax into a squirt. Or maybe it's just adding extra oomph.
I hear you on the idea that once you're 'over the hurdle' with something sexually it's easier to let go. Many of my friends felt that once they got over the 'must-lost-virginity' stage of life they could actually start enjoying sex instead of thinking of it as a check list of accomplishments. Even after getting experienced I feel myself occasionally slipping into that state of pressuring myself to get off in a certain way. Then I remind myself to just have fun and go with the flow!
I don't know how the pubic bone thing worked, but it def seemed to, whether it just helped his fingers get the G spot in the right place I have no idea... I remember seeing some video somewhere maybe redtube about how to do it and the bloke was doing it and always wondered what it did...
Agreed on that internal pressure we create within ourselves, its a killer sometimes, this time, my partner is new and we have said from the outset we will just be completely honest with each other all the way along and so far so good....
Relax, don't stress bout it happening, enjoy whats happening to you and that just might work
PS - Forgot to say I had quite a thick pillow under me, so dont know if that angle was also a contributory factor?
MissTerryCleavage wrote:
PS - Forgot to say I had quite a thick pillow under me, so dont know if that angle was also a contributory factor?
Certainly seems to make a difference for G-spot stim so maybe... hmmm
Hey folks,
I normally lurk around the forums, but thought I would join in for a change!
Last night my girlfriend had her first ever squirting experience! She was trying out our new sex machine for the first time and came very hard with ALOT of squirting! She never even noticed she did this until she sat up and is now mortified and embarrassed by it!
Hopefully this wont stop her using the machine in future! If it helps anyone whos trying to squirt, she was laying back and didnt have any clitoral stimulation at all, infact she was only using it for about 10minutes!
Woohoo, it happened again.... much better this time, I'm so relaxed with him & he loves it happening so much, am just so happy to let it happen & go with the flow, so to speak... lol
Hi i bought a book that teaches you how to do it by deborah sundal and i finally managed it and was so excited, then i did it again. But i havent been able to do it since and get quite annoyed about it.
I was totally relaxed and doing what the book says which is that you can learn to do it without orgasm first and was trying away and it said dont give in and go for the orgasm as you need to be highly aroused then push it out, but being lacking somewhat in denying myself i gave in and orgasmed and it happened.
I keep worrying that it wont happen again as i have a coil fitted now, which prob has no relation what so ever but i still keep thinking it. Does anyone here or does it have a coil?
I have tried pushing really hard but feel like i just puch air out when i do it lol. Next time i am just going to totally go floppy and relax and see what happens, or concentrate on thinking about it pouring out like when you need a wee and you turn the tap on lol
I have a coil too Frustrated and as you can see from my posts above, its all new to me right now, for me the key is definitely being relaxed and trusting him. I can't see there is any connection between it and squirting but I could well be wrong....
I've not really tried it on my own yet given that it is such a new thing for me and at the moment I am just enjoying it when he does it and don't want to spoil that "special-ness" yet, odd I know
No i think that is great, i wish it was that way around for me, i seem to be able to do it all on my own but really struggle with my partner. To be honest i am just starting to realise that i am too uptight worrying about doing it right and getting there before he does and all sorts of things that i cant relax and enjoy it.
I really am becoming goal orientated and am missing out on orgasms because of it.
Any tips on how to relax???? I really want to be able to be able to be as good at sex as i seem to be at masterbation lol xx I feel really stupid trying to teach him and i know it is all about communication and is important to give feed back as mind reading isnt that strong in most people lol I really struggle with it though, i want him to magically know lol
Sorry have totally digressed here. Glad to hear you have a coil too as if you can do it with one then it isnt that being put in that has stopped me, again i need to relax more lol
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No i think that is great, i wish it was that way around for me, i seem to be able to do it all on my own but really struggle with my partner. To be honest i am just starting to realise that i am too uptight worrying about doing it right and getting there before he does and all sorts of things that i cant relax and enjoy it.
I really am becoming goal orientated and am missing out on orgasms because of it.
Any tips on how to relax???? I really want to be able to be able to be as good at sex as i seem to be at masterbation lol xx I feel really stupid trying to teach him and i know it is all about communication and is important to give feed back as mind reading isnt that strong in most people lol I really struggle with it though, i want him to magically know lol
Sorry have totally digressed here. Glad to hear you have a coil too as if you can do it with one then it isnt that being put in that has stopped me, again i need to relax more lol
Heyo there frustrated! External Media
One of the best things you can do is to show him exactly what you like...you could either masturbate in front of him (which might be a little intimidating and counter productive on the relaxation front) or you could try making him a sexy film of you touching yourself. For a start the clip will be a turn-on and more importantly he can watch and re-watch till he learns! You could send/give the video to him with a note saying "thinking of you"!
Another idea might be to play a game called "hot or cold" it's very simple: just get him to try different ways of touching you (different speeds, directions, textures, temperatures, positions, areas etc). The better it feels the hotter your response e.g. good would be "warm" ... better would be "warmer" ... really amazing = "RED HOT!" and vice versa for the cold temperatures down to "freezing" = really bad! Because it's a game and about exploring, the pressure's off both of you so you can have fun (and hopefully lots of orgasms!). Another benefit is that his feeling won't be hurt if you say "cold" in the way that they might be if you said "what the hell are you doing that feels aweful!" during sex! Also being a game it brings out that competative streak a lot of guys have...he'll want to "win" i.e. get you yelling "HOT, HOT, HOT!"
Hope some of my ramblings are vaguely helpful(ish)!
xxKPxx
PS I have a coil and sometimes push out really hard during sex and squirting but nothing has ever happened to mine...You're pushing from lower down (in your vagina) rather than the uterus where the coil is so you should be fine External Media
Hey thanks kp that is a good idea, i like the video idea, i do actually like the idea of being watched has always been a fantasy but in reality i might feel silly lol and worried it would not be a turn on for him which would be awful. But a video is best of both isnt it.
I like the game idea too will put that to him tonight :) good thinking.
xx
Thats ok about the coil and squirting, sounds silly but i was actually worried as i have only ever squrited before having one that it was some how preventing me from doing it again, but i actually think i am having trouble getting that relaxed again lol Also i think mentally i had the idea it might be that blocking it coming out or something and so might have been not letting myself.
It all started when i read in a book that diaphrams can block the ejaculate coming out because of the pressure on some part so was wondering if the coil was the same, but obviously not so glad to hear that xx
