Starting female lead chastity

Any recommendations you can make - I want to buy one to surprise him

His cock is long - but from looking the size is irrelevant as it hooks over the helmet and then locks in place

I have seen some that are longer than others. If he has a long cock be better to have one of the longer models.

I do have a lot of recommendations but sadly they are from external sites. I did post in the pander to me topic on here with one Iā€™d recommended.

You can get an ā€˜averageā€™ cock cage even from LH and see how it goes as a surprise, but I personally found the road to finding a well fitting and comfortable cage a long one, along with measurements required and a lot of trial and error.

Iā€™m more of a grower than a shower and itā€™s been pain finding the right cage for me haha

It is trial and error to find the right one and expensive if you buy from here. I personally prefer a shorter cage as itā€™s better when you grow and my penis strains for release against the confines of its cage. Great feeling.
I have metal and plastic cages and combine the two, metal ring with plastic cage, lighter in weight.
And as a starter itā€™s easier to get one with a base ring that separates ( or is hinged)rather than being solid that you have to manoeuvre his cock and balls through

I am in an open relationship with my boyfriend and find the more sex I give him the less affection I get back - from reading here if he is not allowed to cum then you get more affection

Sounds just perfect- not sure it will work on my boyfriend as he will no doubt get it from one if his gay partners

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@r3k
My husband is the same as you a grower - goes from a mushroom to almost 10 inch - on Lovehoney there are plastic types and metal types - while I now know the gage is attached to the helmet - i donā€™t want him to be too uncomfortable while wearing it

The plastic ones donā€™t look very comfortable and the metal ones look cold

What type do you use

@rockstar
Morning hun

Looking at cages but I cannot decide on either metal or plastic- the plastic ones do not look comfortable and the metal ones look cold

Can I ask your opinion :lovehoney_heart:

From experience with steel cock rings, they very soon warm up to body temperature, theyā€™re only cold for a short moment when you put it on.

I would think the coldness could be an extra feature in your play thoughā€¦

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@batjamboree

Cage wise it can be a bit of trial and error finding the right one. There are plenty of specialist sites for this.

I have both plastic and metal. Love the feeling of the cold metal one but itā€™s a bit of faff putting on.

Plastic is the more comfortable cage and smaller is better as If it stops him getting an erection in the first place is best.

Sounds like heā€™s getting plenty of encouragement with the pics you are sending him so he sounds a like a lucky man.

Iā€™m sure he would love getting requests from you demanding pic replies of him in his cage and knickers. My wife often requests pictures of me in lace pants she has ordered me to go to work in.

After his release order his cage straight back on.

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@Billy_talent
Nice to hear from you - in the past few days I have only allowed him to wear white lingerie all day long (suspender belt stockings and knickers ) but last night I gave him my purple satin front knickers to wear after wearing them throughout the day as a treat

This morning I gave him the new suspender belt (see photos) and currently he is walking around wearing it - but later Iā€™m allowing him to cum

With regards to cages Iā€™m still looking but some are so costly - so donā€™t want to waste money

@batjamboree

Sounds like you have lovely set of lingerie for him to wear.

I have never spent more than Ā£40 on cages and they all do the job brilliantly.

Good luck with it tonight. Look forward to hearing how you get on.

I have a night of serving drinks and foot massages for the wife while she relaxes with wine in store

Metal cage all the way.

The plastic are harder to keep clean and the rings have quite a sharp edge that can be very uncomfortable.

Hate to do this to LH but there are much cheaper available on other online retail platforms and a much wider choice too available in different sizes.

You can also get a plastic resin one that is more cage like than the plastic ones available on LH.

Those have a proper round ring with curved edges not a square profile.

If youā€™re wearing a cage full time the open metal cages are much easier to keep clean.

They warm up very quickly .

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My husband is on the honor system and has never used a cage. I can tell if heā€™s masturbated bc he lasts longer

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@Jen13579 - nice to hear another womanā€™s thoughts- seems to be working for me - how about you

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The honor system is fine but speaking as a male I know that sometimes the temptation is too much!! If Iā€™m Locked then it takes the risk away and hands total control to my KH (wife)
We both prefer that. Plus a cage looks good and feels great. Win win.
But whatever floats your boat

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There is an ebook on the pop site, a journey of chastity that claims to help with understanding the types of cages you are considering using. I donā€™t know its content but it may help. I must say your adventures are stimulating, so please keep updating your post

I can tell when he masturbates and he hasnā€™t in a very long time. You can tell by how long it takes to finish them

Although Iā€™m caged permanently now itā€™s still basically an ā€˜honourā€™ system as I know where there is a key in case of emergencies. The bottom line though is that this whole chastity relationship was at my request so why would I want to cheat?

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It was just perfect yesterday.
Started around 11am after we both had a bath he started on my boobs and then went down me for a wonderful orgasm

After we had a spank - I brought my a game - dressed up and put him over the table and gave a great spank - but after I saw he was in possession of a massive hard penis - and I know I said I would be cruel- I just had to have him - so stripped down and he took me via bottom

Perfect :lovehoney_heart:

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