Stimulation for a woman whilst wearing a strap-on

Hi,

We recently got a strap-on for my wife to use to penetrate me, used it for the first time last night and it was great but she said it would be much better if she could get stimulation whilst using it as well. I know you can get strap-ons with a dildo on the inside but that means getting a new one, are there any other suggestions?

Which harness have you got?

The Sportsheets New Cummers one - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2442 We only used it for the first time last night, and in very dim light, so I'm not sure if she has access to her pussy whilst she's wearing it or not, or whether something woudl have to be put in place before the harness.

Hi there,

You could buy a new harness that is designed to accomodate a bullet, like this one: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=1226

Or (depending on the design of you current harness) you might be able to just slip a bullet against her clit and tighten the straps so the harness to hold it in place.

I actually find that the knicker style harness alone can be stimulating if the strap between the legs is a nice material ... if you get the grinding/thrusting action just right it feels lovely.

xxKPxx

The harness you have is of the two-strap type so you don't get the stimulation that a thong type harness gives. We went down the Feeldoe/Share route but one idea we had but never tried was for my wife to wear a pearl thong like these:-

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17381

which might just increase the sensation if the harness tends to move the thong during thrusting.

BTW if you are anything like us you will eventually spend a fortune on different dildos in the quest for good stimulation at both ends - but it's worth it!

A few of the Vac-U-Lock harnesses have gaps for pussy access, that way you can use the strap on and her fave toy!

Thanks for all the replies! I like the idea of having a bulelt there, that's probably going to be the best solution. I have an excuse to spend more on sex toys then as well. Already planning a bigger dildo for the harness we have, the bit on the site where it lists all the compatible ones is a great idea.

KittyPurry wrote:

Hi there,

You could buy a new harness that is designed to accomodate a bullet, like this one: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=1226

Or (depending on the design of you current harness) you might be able to just slip a bullet against her clit and tighten the straps so the harness to hold it in place.

I actually find that the knicker style harness alone can be stimulating if the strap between the legs is a nice material ... if you get the grinding/thrusting action just right it feels lovely.

xxKPxx

I agree. I have the Sedeux harness as well as the Vac U Lock crotchless knicker style one. I love the Vac U Lock harness because the gap between the material at the crotch both means you can use either vaginal or anal toys with it ( or both ) and that there is a nice friction that arises from the straps on your intimate parts!

Also how about slipping in a remote love egg like The LH 10 function one? http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15667

Then the 'receiver' can control the pleasure of the 'giver' at the same time as they are thrusting!

The clit bullet that comes with the Sedeux harness is amazing. I've used it plenty of times on its own for solo play!

Also you may purchase a variety of dildos for the Vac U Lock but as they can all be used alone as regular sex toys I feel that they are a real investment. I especially love the Doc Johnson 8" realistic one that I've just purchased http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12599 . It feels absolutely FANTASTIC.

Good luck!

xxx