Hello
Need some advice I think.
I’m a st8 male in my 40s, married for 20years nearly. Me and my wife have a good sex life.
What I’m looking for is vibrating butt plug that I can wear for a few hours, either out and about or at home. I’m keen to have my cock sucked or fuck whilst plugged.
First of all I’d like to know how many straight couples engage in the same?
I’m not gay but I do like the sensation of anal play on my self.
How many st8 guys plug themselves and wear them out and about?
Can anyone recommend anything?
Newbie to this but keen to try new things and don’t really know where else to ask…
Who isn’t keen to get their cock sucked or fucked whilst they are plugged …
Love anal play… luckily for me my wife enjoys that I like it … try out different things from lovehoney … one of my favourites are anal beads … she pulls them out when I’m about to come … and ohhh wow …
Nothing gay about finding pleasure from any and all parts of your whole body. Can’t actually offer any recommendations for what you’re looking - I have some prostate vibes, and I have plugs, but I don’t have any vibrating plugs. The vibes I do have would not be comfortable for walking around, I don’t think.
Love anal play. Wife and I frequently wear our plugs out when going to dinner or for drinks. Big turn on and build up for sex. Into mutual anal and pegging. Nothing gay about males enjoying anal/prostate stimulation.
And once again, in case you need one more person to tell you this, enjoying anal doesn’t make you gay Being sexually and emotionally attracted to men makes you gay. Even if your wife pegs you… still not gay.
There are loads of threads on butt plugs, click ‘related’ at the bottom of your thread, or use the search bar.
Dude, wanting a butt plug for sexual pleasure doesn’t make you gay, you know that, right…?
I consider myself a “straight” male, but I love nothing better than being pegged by my wife. It doesn’t mean I’m going to go out and find another guy, it means that I love the deep intimacy that kind of play gives me. We need to learn the difference between what we feel versus the stereotypes society, religion and
generational upbringing has imposed upon us.
For a vibrating butt plug, I’d recommend the BVibe rimming plug. It vibrates and has rotating beads that simulate the sensation of rimming on the anus. Just be aware that they are a somewhat larger size so may not be good choice if totally new to anal toys.
I love it! Another guy with the same feelings as me - a butt plug only mean you like THAT feeling - period! I love it when oh uses a small dildo on me and has even sucked my penis all the way while it’s in me. Sill like pussy. LOL
I’m a male that loves anal play. I’m maybe a little bicurious but mostly straight. I have the LH High Roller prostate toy and I really enjoy that. I tend not to wear it around because having something in my butt just makes me horny, but even though it’s not the smallest toy, I feel like you could wear it fairly comfortably for a prolonged period if you wanted to.
Wouldn’t mind the OH to use a toy on me, I would like the experience in cuming from using a toy in there. I read cuming is totally different when its done properly
Hey there, good on you for exploring new things!
I’m a straight male, but love anal play, including my realistic dildo. No need to question your sexuality over it but I understand your reservation - because I’d be more comfortable talking about my more typical male sex toys like my fleshlights with my friends than sharing that I own a dildo because I guess there’s a bit of a stigma with it still. Love this forum though as it’s a great place to learn and explore whatever interests you.
I started anal play because I’m always on the search for the best possible orgasm so that’s all it is to me. And after reading the experiences of some people on this forum, anal felt like a must-have experience!
Enjoy your exploration!!
I often wear a butt plug around the house and sometimes when we go out socially. I also wear discrete nipple clamps when we’re out too.
I also get regularly pegged by my wife.
As others have said enjoying anal play or penetration has absolutely no bearing on your sexuality.
@Ghill1 Male here. Orgasms from anal/prostate stimulation are out of this world. We do lots of different butt play and depending on whether using a prostate massager or being pegged, which the stimulation delivers different feelings the final orgasm is just mind blowing.
Yesterday I used doc Johnson Titan and I feel little sore. I love it. Had it in for a while taking a shower. Actually stayed in clinched. I want to walk around with it in but I know my wife would be able to tell. It really is next level butt plug. It’s like you got it in and then the next bump sends you to a whole new world
She only seen videos on my use them but I have got to use in front of her. I know she will love it. She won’t peg me but I know she will watch. I used plugs before and told her. She was like you don’t have to tell me I know.
Hello im rocky76 ok just to clarify just because a man enjoys anal stimulation does not mean that he is gay, bisexual, or heteroflexible. Im a 48 year old that has enjoyed anal stimulation in many different ways for close to 30 years and ive never had a sexual encounter or interest with another man either way there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. But your question about wearing a vibrating anal plug out in public or what ever i enjoy the secrecy of it just as much as the sensations i get from it. My current plug is wireless with 8 different pulses and its extremely quiet as well. Its dual action meaning it has a built-in vibrating cock ring as well as a vibrating plug and thrust motion built into the plug itself. Although ive never tested the range of the remote its easily concealed in the palm of your hand, about the size of a key phob. There are many many different styles and types just depending on how much you want to spend. I suggest that you start out with something simple at fist to get a feel for it without breaking the bank and if its
something you want to presue further then im confident you will be able to find the one that fits your specific needs with out much hassle. If there are any other questions please feel free to contact me.
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Being sexually and emotionally attracted to men makes you gay. Even if your wife pegs you… still not gay.
but I understand your reservation - because I’d be more comfortable talking about my more typical male sex toys like my fleshlights with my friends than sharing that I own a dildo because I guess there’s a bit of a stigma with it still. Love this forum though as it’s a great place to learn and explore whatever interests you.