Hey!
Im really into anal play and love riding a dildo (Ive done it awhile so can take about 10inch now) do you think this would be a turn on or turn of for a woman? I have an OH but have not told her about this side yet.
Thank you x
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Every woman is different, there is no definitive answer to your question Iām afraid 
Only you know your partner and how open minded she is.
It wouldnāt bother me personally but Iām only one opinion.
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@MsSubExperimenter thank you what do u like about it? I think she would most like the moans
Seeing someone enjoy themselves 
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Do you have an honest open relationship with your OH? Can you talk openly about your sexual desires, wants etc..
My wife and I have been into me receiving anal, pegging for over fifteen years now and itās all about communication. To answer your question my wife gets very turned on by it. She like seeing a dildo go inside me, she like the role reversal when pegging and enjoys the watching the pleasure I receive from it.
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I love the idea of a straight guy playing with dildos but Iām a guy also so guess it donāt count to the question 
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We can only tell you about our experiences. There is no way we can know how your partner will respond to your suggestion. Hopefully your relationship is solid and you can have an open, relaxed chat.
My H loves to be rimmed so after sharing a few posts Iād read on here about prostate massagers, he said āwhy not, might be fun.ā So, we ordered a few bits from LH.
He now has a couple of massagers, butt plugs and will sometimes use my dildos.
I will use them on him if heās in the mood, and while it doesnāt turn me on, my pleasure is from him feeling pleasure.
Maybe sharing some of the posts on here you could open up the conversation?
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My wife enjoys watching me ride a dildo and loves operating the controls on our vibrating thrusting version and also on the fuxxing machine when Iām taking it anally.
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I love using a dildo on myself my OH also loves to watch me using it on my own she often masturbates with her dildo while Iām filling my ass with mine she also loves to peg me when Iāve been using it and after she has climaxed
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How serious are you with the OH? A low or medium relationship or something more serious?
My wife knows I like using butt plugs. Sheās seen the toys in our toy box. I say our toy box itās pretty much all the stuff Iāve bought and ordered and she knows I like the occasional rimming and fingering from her. Her hand gets tired after a while. Sheāll have no problem with me having fun and pleasing myself anally.
Small chance a few woman might not be too into but hopefully yours will. Good luck. You could either keep it quiet as a solo thing or try to gauge her reaction or play a sex app game to suggest it.
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Iām a straight guy, who gets pegged on a weekly basis off the Mrs, with some huge dildos. However sometimes especially when weāre both working weāre like passing ships and donāt see each other until the Sunday and Monday. This can get rather frustrating for us, so Iāll occasionally pull out a dildo and slide it in my ass whilst I knock one out. It doesnāt have the same effect as when the Mrs pegs me but I still enjoy it and it hits the prostate how I like it. Youāre best explaining to the Mrs how you enjoy the thought of having a dildo in your arse why you masturbate and see if sheāll give you a helping hand. Maybe sheāll love the idea and you may end up eventually pegging and thatās a whole new level of pleasure.
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It depends. Some women would not while others would love it. Like you, some like it others feel strange about it.
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Why not try to find some erotic literature that deals with the subject and let her read it. I think youāll be able to tell by her reaction whether it turns her on or not. Then you can make a decision on where to let her in on your secret or not.
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I quite often ride a suction dildo while my wife lays on the bed watching me with her clit sucker, she cums in no time so i guess she likes what she sees.
She also likes me on all fours so she can put plugs in me and play with & suck my dick and balls.
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I enjoy anal pleasure as well. I can also take a good 10 inches. Iām up to about 2 1/4 thick. Iām into pegging but also play solo. Iāve been with women that are turned on by either watching me use a dildo or doing me with one.
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Iām straight and enjoy using dildos in my bum. Anal and pspot stimulation feels incredible so why not enjoy a bit of bum fun.
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Iām a straight masculine man and enjoy using dildos as well. I love the stretching and fullness feeling as well as prostate stimulation. It makes the orgasm so much more intense.
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Only used a plug and a prostate massager
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Have used a jeweled plug, slimline anal beads and another slightly larger anal dildo. Recently purchased a ārealisticā dildo with the intent to ride it one day. Havenāt gotten there yet as it looks a bit daunting in terms of size. Anyway, all LH products.
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Iām a totally straight guy. Have recently started being more experimental with toys, dildos included. Completely enjoy using them and sharing with wife. Anal play is fun, and many new sensations beyond typical sexual activities. The feeing of being penetrated by a dildo is very stimulating and feeling of fullness and prostate play they provide feels really good. Totally not willing to try anything with another guy. But dildos are lots of fun. 
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