I love pegging and have experimented with many strapless strap-ons, but the female part always pops out as I get wet. My pelvic floor muscles are reasonably tight since I've been doing kegel exercises for years.
This is why I'm looking for a strap-on harness that is compatible with strapless strap-on dildos. Ideally it would be adjustable, sturdy, and you could change the o-ring. These are the harnesses I could find:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37703 Straps too thin, harness possibly uncomfortable and might not hold the dildo in place sexurely enough. Also too expensive since I don't need the toys.
We are really into the 'strapless' strapons (favourite being the Fun Factory Share XL that is unfortunately discontinued) but found out like you pretty quickly that they all need a harness. We found that unless the harness had a full waist-band it didn't give enough upward pressure to hold the dildo in place. Unfortunately, this is not an especially popular design and we even imported two designs from the USA (hopefully no one local read the customs declarations!). In the end we realised that this type of dildo does not need a ring but simply a gusset underneath to hold it up so we made a leather harness that was rather like a low-fronted leather thong but with a wide, substantial waist-band that could be tightened quite firmly. The result (made from soft nappa leather) works well and there is no way the dildo can escape even when driven very hard (I'm coming over all feint just thinking about it)
We are really into the 'strapless' strapons (favourite being the Fun Factory Share XL that is unfortunately discontinued) but found out like you pretty quickly that they all need a harness. We found that unless the harness had a full waist-band it didn't give enough upward pressure to hold the dildo in place. Unfortunately, this is not an especially popular design and we even imported two designs from the USA (hopefully no one local read the customs declarations!). In the end we realised that this type of dildo does not need a ring but simply a gusset underneath to hold it up so we made a leather harness that was rather like a low-fronted leather thong but with a wide, substantial waist-band that could be tightened quite firmly. The result (made from soft nappa leather) works well and there is no way the dildo can escape even when driven very hard (I'm coming over all feint just thinking about it)
Sadly none of us is good with (creating with) leather, so I'd prefer it if I could find a harness I can just order. So far the first one I linked in the OP seems to be the most promosing based on your experience. =)
Yes, I would say you are right in all those conclusions. I have heard that some people have used dildos such as the Feeldoe with success using this one:-
that is clearly a close relative to the first. My issue with that one was the velcro in the waist-band that didn't like to be tensioned as much as I liked and my guess is that the same might be true for the Joque harness as well (and at the price it would not be good to find it wasn't right!)
You were right about the two-strap designs. We found they allowed the dildo to escape backwards so a thong or pant style is required.
My wife and I are both in our late 60's and after 2 children her Kegel muscles can no longer retain a strapless strap on for long but we got over the problem by using harness briefs such as the Lovehoney or Packer Gear versions.
We deliberately bought them undersized and they do a great job of holding the bulbous section of the strap on in place in her vagina whilst the pegging section fits perfectly through the O ring.
Strapless strap ons are a big improvement as, being firmly retianed inside her vagina, there is no give or stretch in the harness so her pelvic movements are passed directly into the pegging section and there is no lost movement.
Gyrator53 and rockstar, thank you so much for your detailed replies!
I think the one rockstar linked could work for us as well - it's cheap, and I hadn't noticed that it's compatible with double ended dildos (that should include strapless strap ons as well.) Ordering a smaller size sounds like a good idea, too.
Bigiain, how do you mean? Like, if they were stitched almost all the way and only left a small hole on the front, or something else? If there is no o-ring, the dildo might move around too much... but that's just a guess.
I’m glad someone has asked this- as I have headed to this forum for this very need. I’m a little disappointed if I’m honest. I wanted a strapless strap on for that very reason... I don’t want to have to wear a harness or pants. It’s such a shame... But I like the fact it is vibrating in me as I wear it- and I feel closer that way.
TeamPerve69 thanks for ”resurrecting” this thread.
Here’s an update: I’ve used these https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37884 with a strapless strapon. They are not specifically made for that use, so it’s no big surprise that they kind of work, but not that well. Although they kept the dildo in me, the angle was a little ”off”. Furthermore, they Did not provide enough support. The (long) dildo would wiggle from side to side and I couldn’t thrust hard.
Although obviously not strapless, we tried this and loved it! https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14015 Again, thrusting hard just bends/ moves around the toy, but that was the only negative. I could get some vaginal stimulation and in some positions my clit would rub against him.
Hi Rockstar. Were you able to use these as supplied or did you need to cut an additional hole for the dildo to go though once inserted into her vagina? The image appears to show a backing to the dildo opening. Thanks
As supplied. There’s an internal flap which folds out of the way. It’s normally used to fit a standard dildo through the O ring from the inside but it allows the inner section of a strapless to poke through nicely too.