So forum friends, here’s my dilemma- i ride my dildo in the shower (I’m male, so I’m talking anal riding) and since its a tiled floor I find it uncomfortable to put my knees down. My usual riding position is to suction it to the ground and then squatting with my hands placed behind me on the ground to support me. Anyway, it gets pretty tiring after a while as you can imagine! I’d like to change it up, and thought it might be more comfortable to place the dildo on the bed or on a pillow on the bed and ride it, so i can ride with my knees down - the issue is, there’s nothing to hold the dildo in place.
I was thinking of using a strap-on harness on a pillow and then riding it, has anyone ever done this and could you comment your experience?
Any suggestions of a good strap-on to fit a normal pillow? Or any other suggestions of other good ideas/experiences? TIA!
It’s unlikely the pillow would still hold it in place and you have the added risk of dirtying a pillow everytime. Where’s that’s lube or something else.
You’d be better off with something heavier the suction will stick too.
I love to stick mine on the wall and ride it on all 4s essentially in doggy style.
Or if possible buy one of the dolls with a penis on it. It’s heavy enough it shouldn’t move plus the added sensation / realism is sexy!!
You could try getting one of those back exercise rollers you find at sports stores, perhaps? So long as the circumference is right for you, you could then attach your toy and, hehe, “saddle on up, pardner…!” 
Hi @Toy_addict
I understand this is a little pricey but it’s available on Lovehoney to buy and as you will see in the pictures Made for purpose. from what you are talking about.
There is a slightly less expensive option here just read the reviews and hopefully someone in the forum sees your post and can comment on what it’s like to use them.
As you say your toy has a suction cup there are homemade options like a long board which your ankles hold in place and you kneel on the bed or mirrored Perspex so you can suction it to the mirror and be slightly voyeuristic in your play.
It can work but as others have pointed out it’s not ideal and trying to keep lube/other stuff to a minimum is tricky. Liberator toy mounts are really good and easy to clean and maintain. We have the BonBon which would be ideal for what you described.
Thanks everyone for your replies!
@SexualPanda good point about the pillow, will rule that out. Ive tried sticking the dildo to the wall but it doesnt seem to stay on sadly 
but i like the doggystyle idea, i think i have a few other surfaces in mind i can try 
Torso idea is great, but I have to be honest, its probably a little out of my comfort zone as a straight male. I know it must be weird hearing that since I’m talking about riding a dildo haha, but I guess thats the extent of my comfort zone right now! But appreciate the suggestion!
@Sexterminator i like that idea, i think its kind of similar to the 2nd option that @JGood suggested. I really like the look of that one, plus it comes with the waterproof cover too so good for cleaning too i guess. Will save up a bit and probably get one of these eventually!
pillow and a shiny hard cover book taped shut works for me to stick big pinky dong to when riding on the bed
make sure you wipe your wall down before sticking your dong to the wall it will help it stick …my fav is to doggy against the wall …either in the bedroom of shower …but the wall needs to be clean for it to stick
I just use an upturned large Pyrex mixing bowl and stick the suction cup of the dildo to the upturned base.
It’s the perfect height and very stable.
I set it on the bed, kneel astride it and ride it as long as I like. It’s very comfortable.
The Pyrex is strong and has zero chance of breaking.
My go to is kneeling for play and a cushion, I’ve recently actually found the perfect kind of cushion for this which is actually one them neck rest cushions! You can nicely put toy in the open space and have the cushion wrap round it 
Lots of good suggestions, purchasing something purpose made could obviously suit you the best, but if you want to make do with what you already may have around the house…
As @rockstar suggests, looking to your kitchen you may find some suitable things to suction your dildo to! Always be careful with glass, metal/stainless steel or hard plastic kitchenware may be safest for mounting to. Things you may have (or can very cheaply buy) - stainless steel pet bowls (flip them upside down and suction dildo to it, should be variety of sizes to choose from at stores), large serving platter (should be many available that are plastic or stainless steel, again, flip upside down if too much of a ‘lip’ with it right side up), large mixing bowls (stainless steel probably best).
A rabbit hole to go down if anyone’s interested, PYREX (if you have older glass ones or are in Europe you should be ok) is the shatterproof stuff, but if you’re in the United States most of the stuff here is now pyrex (lowercase) which is not as shatterproof and could be dangerous to mount and ride.
The reason I use a glass bowl is for the weight.
Believe me, there is no way this bowl is going to break while I’m riding it.