Hi my partner and I want to purchase a strap on but the only problem we have is she is only a size 6 waist, can anyone recommend one that fits her correctly as the ones we have tried are always to big, any help would be appreciated thanks :-)
Hello and Welcome,
Firstly, have a little look at the general strap-on guide to give you a genral over-view of harnesses, and finding the right one.
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/buyers-guide/strap-on-harnesses-guide/
I would have thought most adjustable harnesses could be tightened to any waist size (as that's what you need to be looking at - size 6 doesn't really mean anything).
A quick google search leads me to believe that the average size 6 waist is between 24 and 28".
With that in mind:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22580 - this one can be adjusted down to 24"
Unfortunately, none of the harnesses really give you an idea of what the minimum adjustment can be - they'll give you a maximum!
Alternatively, you could go strapless...
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/strap-ons/strapless-strap-ons/
They are a little bit more 'advanced' but eliminate the need for the harness.
Perhaps it's worth speaking to Livechat - they could advise on a suitable product for you :)
Personally I think strapless is the only way to go, there are a lot of cheap options and I think it feels a lot more natural with the dildo directly connected to my own genitals, more like an extention of my sex rather than a plastic penis dangling at the end of uncomfortable underwear (there are obviously harnesses that fit well but it's hard to find the right one).
The only negative about strapless strap ons is that some of them wobble around a bit much or are too heavy to kep in with just the vaginal muscles but I find that you can cut a hole in a pair of sturdy tight panties, I know it seems counter intuative to the strapless concept but you never need to adjust panties and they don't actually have straps to dig in anywhere, plus you still get the double ended feel that most normal stap ons don't have.
My wife is quite small too so we went for a super sexy leather corset strap-on harness in baby pink - this is a great looking harness that also allows access to her lady bits while being worn. Unfortunately LH doesnt offer these though:-(
if you opted for a leather style belt harness wouldnt you be able to add more holes to make it smaller if needed?