My wife loves to peg me but I want her to have more pleasure. Also the dildo part of the strap on always seems to pop out of its holder. Do the strapless ones work or do they not stay in the lady very well? Thanks Mike
We have this one: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16277 and find she can hold it in quite well (My review on that one here: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16277&reviewid=164658#customer_reviews)
When we look to replace it however, I've been looking at these which appear a touch more ergonomic and I would assume "tighter fitting" - https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38740
Strapless strap ons require a bit of practice and good kegal muscles to keep in but once your partner has mastered them they are a great option. The only downside is that you have to buy a whole new one if you want different sizes.
If your dildo keeps popping out of your harness you either have an issue with the harness or the flared base is the wrong size for the harness/o-ring
We have the strap u strapless, for me it's way to big. My wife said it holds in place well it's very smooth and very very well made. Its totally seamless and the bulbous hugs my wifes clit very well.
Emma and Mike For exactly the reasons you outline we bought a strapless strap on but we are both in our late 60s so, anticipating the fact that my wife's kegel muscles would struggle to retain the toy, we also bought harness briefs, having used these with success with a conventional strap on. They proved to be ideal. We deliberately bought them a size too small so that they hold the toy firmly in place. The pegging section of the toy protrudes through the O ring hole in the usual way. This arrangement works well for both of us. My wife gets stimulation from the internal bulb and the clitoral section and, because the whole dildo is secured firmly inside my wife's vagina her thrusts are transferred to me more directly than with a conventional strap on as there is no flex or lost movement in the harness.
Thanks everyone for your replies. Will have a look around the site to what will suit best Thanks again
The two things you need to check when getting a strapless is size and shape, most are built for G spot penetration and don’t bend too well, they can also be quite bulbous so ensure she’s comfortable and confident using penetrative toys beforehand. We have a vibrating strapless toy which feels great for both of us 👌