Have anyone of yall ever used a strapless strap on if so what are your thoughts on it both from the man and woman’s side of it. Wife and I are thinking about getting one
We tried It some time a go. It was really dificult tu put It on place for my wife. We haven`t used It anymore…
Stick with a harness type
Tried a couple.
You need kegel muscles like a steel trap to keep it in place.
Even when we used it with a pair of harness briefs my wife found it distracting and not at all stimulating .
Not a fan, once she starts to get a bit wet, its really hard to hold in place and then the focus is more on keeping the toy in place than the peggee.
Thanks for the reply’s, that was my biggest worry to was keeping it inside her
Sexterminatrix loves her strapless strapon. Sadly, LH doesn’t sell her particular one, but instead of the usual vibrating clitoral “pad” it has an incorporated clitoral sucker with tongue flicker inside. It’s her favourite toy and prefers that over the harness, but as others have said, you need good kegel muscles to hold them in place.
For my part, I like the idea that she is getting a much simulation as I am during that play where harnesses can fall short of the mark for women, without the aid of a bullet vibe or the like.
We have found that the best alternative is for my wife to slip a bullet or pebble vibrator inside her harness briefs before we start the pegging.
What a turn on the idea is we had the one with the clit play as well
I can officially tell you it’s the hardest thing in the bedroom no pun intended
Stick to harness
We have the Happy Rabbit Rechargeable Vibrating Strapless Strap-On we use it now and then and yes it’s hard to keep in place. But found with the wife on her back me riding it on top we can keep it in place and usually both cum together and I can usually squirt it all over her boobs. .
We love ours!
Lovely!!!
We got one a few years ago and it was too big for me (man) to take at the time, much less for her to keep in by the bulb, so it went away for a while. We’ve recently been doing more pegging/anal play for me and I can take the dildo part just fine. Haven’t tried it since with her trying to keep that end, but found the shape makes a great handle for thrusting it in and out regardless. So, not much success with it as a “strap-on” but not bad to have in the toolbox.
Wife has had much more fun and success with harness briefs over the last year: much less faff than a strappy harness and feels sexier than having all the loose strapping flopping around and moving out of place. Also has been much more successful since I’ve practiced myself up to handle dildo of reasonable length so they don’t pop out every time she tries to thrust.
Thanks for all the feedback! Guess you just never know till you try!
Wanted one for years as the idea of it is just amazing, but just about everyone you speak to says stick to the harness.
Somewhat debating on the lifelike lover vibrating one that’s on sale at the minute to give it a go.
We tried a strapless one. Complete disaster for other reasons. However the strapless ones will sometimes fit some of the lovehoney women’s briefs harnesses. And they are dead sexy in their own right when worn right ![]()