I am new to Domme (and having serious fun so far) my man is very familiar with his kinks, but has been doing it on his own for 4 years, I'm the first person he's shared his desire to be dominated with. Makes him a little too stubborn to sub sometimes..
I'm loving my Domme experience, but having to work fast on my feet - I find that when he tries to 'educate' me (with the best of intention) on his desires, it's a massive turn off. He can have what he wants I've just gotta have it on my terms.
Would love some good tips on punishments that he won't love doing, sometimes he's a very naughty boy on purpose! Also effective rewarding rather than punishment -I'd like to keep it to reward based training if I can, that worked best on my pup
I'm liking the idea of the journal, I think that'll give me insight.
He loves lingerie, dress up so he doesn't feel humiliation - I'm working on depriving things but he's home all day whilst I'm at work so it's tricky to enforce.
He's also naturally very domesticated, so I don't think chores will do the trick either...unless theres an added dimension maybe.
He's also a persistent little b*gger, and gets over excited when he finds something new to try...asking permission for new sexual experiences is in the rules, but he gets so excited he can't help himself.
Need some creative ideas...