Well said @SubbyHubby1
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Everyone is entitled to their own opinions of course, and I’m not trying to belittle any 
Having said that, I don’t think having a blanket approach on this sort of topic is necessarily an accurate representation. I get where you’re coming from, but some women may take pleasure from, and/or find a release in taking control.
For them, that might be the best way of taking care of them and giving them pleasure 
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Actually I made it myself.
Even more impressive!! I have a few guitars, but I’m no luthier.
Women like taking control yes but is that because men dont take control and show them what there missing, as guys sorry to say are too busy with satisfying there own needs.. Not all men I will say before you start jumping down my throat… Even in porn its almost all about the man, even with these live sex webcams, its all about the man again, the woman trying her hardest to please him, and very rarely its the otherway around..
Exactly. It’s OK to all enjoy different things and come together with people who are compatible. There’s no right or wrong, just different tastes.
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Welcome @SubbyHubby1 
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Thankyou Strawb !
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I wouldn’t agree that porn is almost always app about the man, maybe the porn you consume is like that, what I watch isn’t about that.
There are women who get to experience what they’re missing by taking control and being dominant. I don’t agree with a blanket approach of all men should be dominant, that would be incredibly boring and unsatisfying for so many women. And isn’t satisfying women your point 
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Welcome! Hope you love your time here, its a great community! Me and my husband have a similar scenario
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Thankyou! It’s always lovely to find others with a similar dynamic, we’re all different but it’s nice to compare notes and find the similarities sometimes.
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Respectfully going to have to disagree with this, I’m a woman and I LOVE to be dominant! It’s not at all because of men being rubbish in bed but just because I absolutely love seeing my sub at my complete mercy, it’s great having someone tied up- overwhelmed by pleasure. Everyone likes different things, and one of my kinks (and many other ladies kinks) is to be dominant, we can’t really change that it’s just how it is (;
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Hello, Welcome to the forum! x
Your dynamic sounds absolutely amazing and I’m so glad that you’re able to experiment with it, there’s absolutely tonnes of people into many similar things here! (:
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Yayyyy to this!!!
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Just wait until you and an equally dominant partner get to be dominant to a sub or a couple that are submissive twice the subs 4 times the kink and fun.
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Why has she stopped sharing the details with you? Was that mutual decision or did it just sort of happen naturally?
We just sort evolved to this. C had a boyfriend when we first got together and she used to go away with him. We both knew that it was for sex, and she knew that I was OK with it but we didn’t talk about it. After a few years we were experimenting and she jumped at the opportunity to do the whole cuckold thing, she used to put me in chastity, let me clean her, send me pictures and videos and that was great for a few years too.
As things moved on, C split with a boyfriend and took a break, she didn’t really enjoy putting the chastity cage on me or letting me clean her and share the details. C was meeting with exes occasionally but preferred to “not tell” she became more Dominant with me in every day life, controlling me and restricting my orgasms. Recently she stopped letting me near her body and told me to expect celibacy and has been teasing me with dates to meet her ex boyfriend when she’s staying in London. She revealed to me yesterday that he lives in the next town and not in London as she had let me believe. (As she was proud to tell me his London Marathon time was 3:40 and he has a huge house)
It’s become a whole lifestyle now and evolved beyond the traditional cuckold phase that we went through into something that works better for both of us. We’re totally open but C enjoys using her control to make me feel like I can’t meet Fs but can occasionally meet Ms and that I can’t climax with anyone else as she’s in charge of that. She enjoys the sneak and the tease of “secretly” seeing other guys and dropping me little hints, her new lover is her first very regular, local guy in a while.
Sorry for the long answer, but it’s all pretty complex, it does however seem to work for both of us and that’s all that really matters!
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Welcome to the forum
I love it here
Discussing all my kinks and fantasies and sex life openly is just so cool
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