and the people who love them.
I’m a happily married guy with a very Dominant wife. We’ve been through the cuckold phase and she still plays but chooses not to share the details with me any more. Orgasm control and denial are a huge part of our dynamic and I love it.
Are there any other kindred spirits living this lifestyle here?
Welcome to the forum 
Thankyou. I’m just looking around and this seems like a very friendly place!
Caged female led male chastity has been our life for the past 6 years with total orgasm control by my wife.
That has led to a full BDSM relationship with pegging, impact play and feminisation for me.
Hi 
@SubbyHubby1
Welcome to the forum 
That’s a very nice ES 335 too!
I used to be caged but my wife never really enjoyed that dynamic. It’s much more about day to day control for us.
We went through a phase where she shared her experiences with me caged and cleaning, but now she prefers the subtle tease of not telling me, just dropping little tidbits of the fun that she’s having.
The chastity is a control thing too, she tells me that I can be open, but then rewards me for not being and practices her subtle control. She enjoys the teasing and ruining my orgasms if she takes it too far when she edges me.
Thankyou! You’re such a friendly bunch. X
Hi and Welcome to the Forum
Thankyou!
Helloooooo
Welcome and if you use the search function spyglass you will find other conversations with people in the same role as yourself. There you can add your own experience to the chat too.
Thanks J, I might do just exactly that…
@SubbyHubby1 - welcome to the forum
I’m a dominant in our relationship and just love role reversal where I’m dominating my husband- love spanking and then pegging - a must…
C (my wife) has got more and more into it as time has passed. Initially it was more about the cuckolding for her, but now it’s all about keeping me full and uncomfortable and ruining orgasms in between times.
We have a strapless strapon but rarely use it, maybe I need to put it on top of the toy box as a subtle hint for C, but she doesn’t really take suggestions from me!
@SubbyHubby1 Hello and welcome to the forums . Back when my wife was active it took a lot of asking for her to become more dominate . For a while she did get into pegging me . I do miss her in a 1/4 bra topped corset with a strap on . I still remember fondly when we got a 9" cock like dildo for the strap on and she said " no way you can take all that " . Challenge accepted and accomplished . She does enjoy me doing housework in lingerie or naked .
I’m an ex Domme turned switch, still a bossy madam when I choose to me. The men in my life definitely know who rules the roost… outside of the bedroom! 
For us it’s a whole life dynamic. I really enjoy the kink of knowing that C has control and exerts it in every day life. The sexual control is just a part of it. A central part, but just a part.
My husband is my Dom in all aspects of my life, I boss him knowing there’s a fine line being able to sit down or not and it’s up to me to work it out
I think a man should always be the dominant as its his job to give the woman as much pleasure as possible. God women has enough of a hard time with all the shit they have to deal with without taking charge in the bedroom department aswel…
That’s cool. I guess you’re entitled to your point of view, but everyone’s situation and tastes are different. This is just what works for us.