Suction toys with small clit?

Newbie here. A little background: my wonderful wife and I are in our 50s and have a nice (seemingly quite vanilla compared to many on here!) sex life. We decided to get our first toy a couple of months ago (we-vibe sync O), and while we’re quite happy with it, she has a hard time keeping it on her clit, which keeps hiding. She has said it’s even hard for her to get the vibe positioned right (which she doesn’t do much, as she’d rather have me do it with guidance from her, and she doesn’t play solo). We’ve only been with each other, so there’s nothing to compare to (which is perfectly fine with us!).

Here’s the question: I’m wondering if a suction toy would work for someone with a small clit, and if so, what are the things to look for? I was thinking one of the rose vibes (maybe Rose glow), something like a Womanizer or Melt, or possibly something like the Romp Reverb. The real concern is that if it isn’t going to work, we don’t want to waste the money…

All ideas and recommendations appreciated!

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Hi @ssimon and welcome to the forum :blush:

If it’s any reassurance, LH do offer a 100 day refund policy, obviously terms and conditions attached.

I’ve used it before when I’ve not gotten on with a toy and it’s been painless :+1:t2:

Also, Womanizer do different size ‘heads’ for some of their clit suction toys, so if the standard one doesn’t work for your wife, you could try a different size (search replacement on the website :blush:). I speak from personal experience on this, because I have the Pro40 and didn’t really get on with it; bought a different size head and wow, it really did make a difference.

Good luck :crossed_fingers:t2: :+1:t2:

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Hi @ssimon welcome as well to the forum. We purchased a Womaniser Starlet and initially wondered if we made the right choice. With a bit of practice and perseverance when she got the right spot it was a a great purchase. Very quick, long, loud orgasms! Make sure you use plenty of lube to help the connection and away you go!! :flying_saucer::flying_saucer: and try a different head size as @MsSubExperimenter suggests, our womaniser came with a couple of options. Good luck.

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Hi @ssimon

We have the LH Rose - and its wonderful. We have a couple of other more expensive suction toys but my wife thinks that the rose is the best.

She finds it easy to hold and can ‘find the right spot’ most easily with it. It looks great too, so if you are fairly new to toys, it’s a very appealing object.

However, there is definitely a lot of personal preferences with these things - it’s not a guarantee, but if you get the right one, it’s a huge boon!

In fact, we think the Rose is so good, my wife bought one for her friend as a wedding present!

Have fun :smiley:

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Greetings and Welcome @ssimon :sunglasses:

the clit suckers can be a tad fididdly to get in the right place. as others have mentioned lots of lube on her and on the toy. My OH has the Womanizer Pro 40 which I think came with two heads but I believe they are the same size :thinking: and she has the Rose. We cannot identify with the smaller clit comment as OH is on hormone replacement that has increased the size of her clit. but I can tell you that our experience with these devices if they are making any noise at all they do not have a good seal. once you get it placed just right and a seal is made it quiets down. this maybe be easier if she guides it herself? it’s worth a shot, if she is willing to try. it took us a good amount of practice to get on with these devices.

wishing y’all all the best

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Hellooooo, I’m sure someone will have the right toy for you

Id say try a rose too

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You can’t really go wrong as long as you get a good seal around the clit!

My OH hasn’t got a massive clit, but she loves the auction toys. You can’t go wrong with a womanizer - I’m not sure if they still do, but they used to have replacement ‘heads’ for different sized clits if youre struggling to find a fit…

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Welcome. My wife has a similiar problem but mainly using suction toys, she can find it hard to get the right spot. She much prefers her wand and is the go too but everyone is different interms of what sensations they enjoy.

I’d say get one and give it ago, if it doesnt work for you, use the 100 day refund policy.

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Thank you very much for all the replies. We are thinking we will probably return the Sync O as we’ve repeatedly had less than stellar results (just doesn’t seem to line up with her anatomy), and are now considering one or more of the following items:

Does anyone have experience with either of these?

We/she loves the We-Vibe Nova 2. We-Vibe toys generally have rumbling vibes that really get my partner off and this is one of the few rabbit style vibes that fits her anatomy. With the bendable shaft it’s relatively easy to adjust to her body shape so it pleases her clit and g-spot simultaneously. The material, look and feel of the toy are all fantastic and the battery has not let us down so far.

We love that the vibe can be controlled from a phone which gives extra options for vibration settings and hands free play. I love my partner tied up, toy inserted and just teasing her from my phone hands free. As for the app I’ve read a few complaints about dropping connections, maybe this was early versions of the app or specific phones but we’ve had no issues. I especially like the ability to control the clit and internal vibes independently or programming custom vibe patterns. I also like that the app displays the remaining battery estimation percentage so you can start playing with confidence that the toy is not going to run out of juice.

I can’t comment on the other toys in your list but I do believe the cost of the Nova 2 is justified and it does sometimes come up on a LH promotion

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Sorry for the long delay. We ended up returning the Sync O and getting a We-Vibe Nova as part of a special on the Date Night bundle (would have been nice to have the Nova 2, but the deal was too good to pass up) and we also got a We-Vibe Melt.

She likes the Nova, but LOVES the Melt – very effective and doesn’t get in the way of anything else. 5 Stars for the Melt!!!

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Mrs Kat also has a relatively small “sweet spot” so I think i can offer some recommendations:

  • Lovehoney Clitoral Suction Stimulator. We have found this one is pretty precise. The extended “tip” makes it very easy to put in an exact spot.

  • Lovehoney mon ami Pleasure Air Rose Clitoral Suction Stimulator. A little less precise but has a little wider effective area.

I think you will find both VERY effective. Having said that, I would encourage her to at a minimum help you with positioning. No one knows better than her it the placement is right.

I’ve come back to this topic for some advice
My wife really likes me using our LH Rose on her and asked is there a more powerful type we can get, I’m assuming more suction?
Any recommendations for one with greater suction power?

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We have had the LH Rose and loved it for a long time.
Recently we got the Lovehoney Rose Glow 2-in-1 Clitoral Suction Stimulator with Egg Vibrator and my wife said it seemed more powerful.
The addition of the egg vibrator is great!
New favourite :clap: :heart_eyes:

We got a rose as a tester 2 years ago and found it VERY lacking in power. We already had the Pro40 and the Melt at the time and it was a no-go from the start.

In wife’s words, the Pro40 is hard and fast and sucks the orgasm right out of her. The Melt is a little more nuanced and she feels like she can enjoy playing with it more. Either can be used with penetration (toy or partner) though the melt is much more ergonomically designed to do just that.

We also received a Romp Shine as a tester to review and it was fine: middle of the road as far as power from what we’ve experienced. It absolutely had enough oomph to deliver orgasm, but not as powerful as the Pro40 or Melt.

Ah, @LRLRL and @Quiet_ones_are_worse
I was answering based on a more powerful Rose - I guess I misread!
We have the Melt - my wife said it was too string for her! so packs a punch.
We have the Womanizer Premium too - which is lovely - and strong. But doesn’t get a look in compared to the Roses these days!

Hi @ssimon , don’t know how I missed your topic first time around but you got the exact toy I would have recommended so that’s perfect! :rofl:

I also have a pretty small clit and the Melt is still my favourite suction toy (despite also owning the Next) because it fits me so perfectly! Womanizers, I go with the smaller head choice and they’re great but the Melt is still the best. I just need them to release a Melt 2 with the depth tech of the Next now!

@Quiet_ones_are_worse , great suction toy with more power, get the Melt or the Next. The Next is the most powerful out there currently but as I said above, I still prefer the Melt from a shape point of view and it is still very, very powerful on the higher levels!

I personally vouch for the Lovehoney Pocket Pal - with 10 speeds, it’s an absolute go to for me! I don’t know if I have a small clit, but I do have a clit that lurves to go into hiding because my head would rather fret about something or other, which kind of ruins my potential for an orgassm. As others have said, plenty of lube (and relaxation!) can help. Happy exploring! :slight_smile:

PS. The Pocket Pal is 40% off at the moment, but don’t let me sway you :wink:

Went with
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-suction-vibrators/p/womanizer-x-lovehoney-pro40-rechargeable-clitoral-stimulator/a36927g74431.html

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