Im 6 inches long 5 girth and i cant stop thinking its too small. Would you say surgery is the way to go to get a liitle bigger
Technically above average. Consider counseling for your body dysmorphia and confidence issues instead of going under the knife.
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If you think that’s small, then I wonder if you might have a distorted perception somehow.
What is the basis for you feeling that way?
Surgery is extreme, but if it’s something that bothers you that much, I’d suggest looking into psychological therapy before doing anything physical.
Just my opinion 
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You are perfect the way you are what is it you would want to be that’s so important to go under the knife for and what’s the success rate?
Ive always thought its too small and been told of a couple of woman its the smallest they have had. Im good in bed and can last a long time but the size just really bothers me.
You might not be the biggest but you are certainly not small. If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it. You say you can last a long time and are good in bed so why risk changing any of that? In my personal experience, my largest partners have satisfied me less than my ‘smaller’ partners (though I am sure there are guys out there who are well endowed who are fantastic sexually too!) Be proud of what you have and explore other options before surgery.
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Sorry mate, the issue is in your head.
Are you compering yourself to pornhub actors?
You shouldn’t. You’re already above average.
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I’m going to echo what many others have said but 6 inches is not small whatsoever! I would really consider other options before going down the surgery route. There’s also a lot of other things to consider about penis extension surgery, if you’re not already circumcised you’ll have to be before the procedure; and you’d have to abstain from sexual activity/masturbation 6 weeks after surgery- not much fun!
Please don’t feel insecure about your size, all penises are good penises especially if you know how to use it (;
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Stop watching unrealistic porn and comparing yourself , im roughly the same size and my wife/sub of 40 years certainly sounds like shes having fun haha , you are more than big enough
I would say you are perfectly in the average size and by the sound of it you know how to use it. I am very similar in size and my wife loves my penis we fit together perfectly. All my partners I have been with say they like an average size as anything bigger is painful.
Watching porn can make you think everyone has a huge penis and that what women want but remember that’s not real life.
Surgery would be an extreme thing to do and would come with risks.
Wellits up to you but i wouldmt have surgery . Im the size i am and wither have to like it or lump it haha.
Just think if it goes wrong whats the consequences potential no erection … loss of sensation … etc.
Like these young and not so young girls getting lip filler ect … injecting poison into their faces what will they look like in 5 -10-15 years time.
Natural for me is the way forward but at the end of tge day its your choice.
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I think you have a unrealistic view of your size and its a shame ladies have told you it is small. Surgery is certainly not the answer and I am not sure what/if anything is available. Its how you use it that matters. You could always consider a sleeve, take a look at LH shopping.
Thats not small at all.
I honestly think that therapy may be the best thing for you, and please dont think im being nasty or rude. This is yet another post asking about the size of your penis and it seems that no matter how much we all tell you youre of a normal size and not small, you still have issues with your own body. Theres penis owners all around the world that would love to have the size you have. I want to add aswell that theres nothing wrong with any shape or size.
I am really sorry that there are women that have told you that you are their smallest. You may well have been. So what? Ive had a lot bigger than my husband. I dont love or want him any less.
Youre never going to have a different answer on here. Weve all told you that your perfectly normal and infact a little bigger than the statistical average and i really wish that we could all reassure you and help you love your body.
You seem to have body dysmorphia when it comes to your penis and it may have come from past experiences and trauma or just your own insecurities and the right therapist could help you much more than you considering going under the knife.
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Depends on the surgery and risks involved
Been on only fans a few times for penis ratings and each time they say its small. So obvivosly females do think its small. Just hate not being 7, 8
@ Patty09. You are not small and surgery is not the answer. I would say that you have been with some mean women. Your size is average which means that you are like most men. Porn and only fans use clever camera angles to make the penis look longer or at the very least show it at its best. I bet you didn’t take a picture of your penis from the idea angle to show it at its best.
As the owner of a vagina I recommend that you start to love your penis. You have said that you are skilled in the art of sex so embrace that and stop yearning for something bigger. 
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Well there’s your error, taking any kind of notice of OF. 7 / 8 is statistically huge. It’s only porn that convinces guys that is normal.
I believe UK the average length is something like 5.5 according to most credible surveys. 6 long and 5.5 girth I reckon is about spot on to be honest. I am just under 7 long and just shy of 6 girth and I have had a couple of girlfriends say I was a tiny bit too big in that we had to make sure she was good and wet, and enter fairly carefully to begin with until she was really relaxed and into it.
While I never wished to be smaller as I am not big enough for size to be a real problem, I would definitely not miss half an inch. I reckon being 8+ would just be hard work.
You are well equipped buddy, use it well and stop using OF or porn as your benchmark. That’s the male equivalent of women using Victoria’s Secret models as the only acceptable benchmark of beauty. It’s insane.
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I’ve dated men with smaller than you, including one with what would class as a micropenis. Believe me when I say, you are not small, but your mind and the Internet is not your friend.
(Activates Mom voice)
Get off of OnlyFans, seriously, if you’re tempted to compare yourself (or ask for comparisons) then you’re likely to do yourself more harm than good. I run a blog dedicated to BDSM, I cannot count on both hands how many unsolicited dick pics I’ve seen - when a woman works in sex, believe me, she gets to see a lot of (typically unsolicited) dick. These women are not going to be kind to you, they work with men who will have sex with them, sell the video and split the earnings, they aren’t looking for a hook-up or a date and they don’t care about your feelings either - likely they might even get off on putting you down. Recognise your worth, recognise the many good things about yourself and realise you are much, much more than just your penis. Don’t give them your power.
I used to hate my body too, now I know I’m awesome. Therapy helps, believe me.
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I understand your feelings, I’ve struggled with my size since my teens. I’m 5 length, but very thin at about 3.5 girth. I’d say you’re very lucky, thickness is usually preferable (from what I’ve heard ha). I’ve done lots of research, and to be honest, the solution can actually cause more problems. Erections are less prominent (sometimes even causing erectile distinction) and with widening the shape can drastically alter… Also, fat injections aren’t a long term fix. Sorry to be a downer, but honestly, do LOTS of research before making a decision. I still struggle deeply with my size, it causes me no end of anxiety, but I decided long ago not to tamper with it and however difficult, just accept it.
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