Swingers

Sex Tips & Talk
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I considered it, I’ll be honest.
Would be a weird one to word though.
Also, I suspect most people would rather have sex with someone than oral, so it’s kind of a win win.

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For me it would never really be one or the other, we’ll always have sex but we won’t always have oral sex. Its not a conscious decision mind, its usually when I’m tied up that it doesn’t happen as we’re very focused on that.

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Whats the average age at these clubs…if there is an aveage.?
Do you get couple from 60’s to 20’s ?

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I’ve not been to any clubs yet, N.I is in the dark ages but I’ve been to social nights arranged by folks on fab and there were people of all ages there. Probably mostly 30’s to 50’s but definitely 60’s+ also.

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I went to one wen I was single when I was 21 iam 38 now I saw things that shocked me and I mean unreal what couples allowed :flushed: it’s took me this time to meet someone who I can talk too about anything and express our fantasies and I it’s unreal and to do these fantasies I love her for she is and my soul mate x

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I’d love to go to a club not that it will ever happen but when I was single I would have love to go if I had know about them. Just to go and see what goes on and be able to join in and play with no pressures and ease of the play.

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@JoCat Thanks , always just wondered.

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Please change

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Personally, I don’t like to share so swapping is definitely not for me! BUT the thought of someone getting off watching me and my man turns me on so much!!

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I have fancied going for a longtime OH has recently agree’d we should check it out and tick it off the list !
We have no interest in swapping but want to soak up the atmosphere then play together with all this naughty action around!
Leeds here we come to check it out!

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@numbnuts81 that’s the exact reason wife & I went. We didn’t swap. We just stayed with each other and saw all the naughtiness around us, which eventually got us in the mood and we got it on too.

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Thanks @rockstar @Gareth @WeFCUKaLot. Don’t think swinging will be for us but always interesting to find out new things.

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My OH is lucky enough to have been to one with a previous partner, she did not play it was just to see what it was like. We have discussed this between us and it is something that is on our bucket list. The intention is just to go and soak up the atmosphere, but as we get highly excited when it comes to sex and sexuality I’m sure that we will end up in a private room.

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We do occasionally indulge in swinging and it’s only full swap with another couple or a club. I also do meet men on my own but have to keep it discreet.

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Yes we’ve been to a few and always talk about what we are okay with beforehand and check in often throughout the evening. All about clear and honest communication x