Anyone have taboos that they struggle to deal with or share with others?
I have a type of porn that turns me on but ashamed of.
A little. It's not exactly a taboo thing I like but it is certainly weird. I'm sure it would warrant a laugh or a worried look, lol. I haven't come out and told my partner exactly what it is but I think he has an inkling.
I certainly have some I struggle to share with anyone other than my husband. He knows everything though.
I have things I want to do but am nervous to ask my gf,she very shy with kinky things when it comes to it,hard to try and keep urges at bay
How do you ask your straight laced when it comes to sex gf to try kinky things?
I have more if a fantasy than a taboo, but I think oh would panic if he knew
I have many fantasies, some too that turn me on but I wouldn’t share with people due to embarrassment or ridicule. For me as I only have solo play I can indulge some of them.
Oh yes I've got a couple that I'd never tell anyone about !
I'm into findom. That stands for FINancial DOMination. I am literally turned on by reveicing tributes, gifts, or (even better) getting his credit card etc and going wild with it.
However, I rarely ever mention it to people who are not already familiar with findom, because there are so many misconceptions and misunderstandings...!  For example:
- I am not a prostitute/ not getting paid for sex or my services.
- I am not looking for easy victims - there's a huge amount of responsibility that comes with this kind of power over another person's finances and thus their well-being.
- We do not have a findom relationship with all of my partners. Exactly like when it comes to other kinks, with each partner we focus on the kinks we both have in common!
I think it's more of a taboo kink than a ''personal'' taboo, if this makes any sense...
I have one also. On the femdom side that I think would be hot and I think the wife would go for it. Just have not done it or built the nerve.
I like the look of, and to lick a nice smooth female armpit, it seems quite a rare fetish, but have seen it done in Glee and Tin Star on mainstram tv! In my opinion, we lick all the other erogenous zones, so why not that?
What is kinky I enjoy everything except water sports never tried it never will
I like the sound of this!WillC wrote:
I like the look of, and to lick a nice smooth female armpit, it seems quite a rare fetish, but have seen it done in Glee and Tin Star on mainstram tv! In my opinion, we lick all the other erogenous zones, so why not that?
Singleyummymummy, try it, you have nothing to lose!
Yes single yummy mommy give it a go
This is something that wife and I can definitely relate to. We have a couple of interests that if the other wasn't okay with, it would most probably be a deal breaker. Some not so "taboo" yet offbeat interests include anal play and pegging, water sports and face sitting. And now we get to what most would consider to be the "taboo" stuff (don't worry, I cleared it with Mrs D to write this post). Firstly, you may have heard the term adult baby. Maybe even seen AB/DL being referred to somewhere. AB/DL stands for adult baby/diaper lover and covers two fairly distinct groups. Adult babies, who generally tend to regress to a babyish/childlike state, wearing babyish stuff and doing babyish things (which often includes wearing nappies). I fall into the second part. The diaper lovers. Typically a sexual kink associated with wearing and using nappies. That said, wearing and using nappies isn't a sexual thing for me. I just find then very comfortable and fun (that said, there are adult babies for whom it's a sexual thing dom/sub etc). I do only wear babyish print nappies and I have a t shirt style onsie with poppers in the crotch and I used to have a pacifier (more on that later) but there's no age play involved for me. I'm still the same person, not a "little" (as ABs often refer to themselves as). As for how it all started, for as long as I can remember, I was interested in wearing a nappy, however as I got older, I sort of forgot about it, having never indulged this idea. One night I stumbled across an ABDL website and my interest was reignited. Not wanting to ever hide anything from my wife, I told her about it and she replied that we'd best get me some nappies then! It took a bit of time figuring out where I sat between AB and DL, but I've found my niche and and very happy with it. Although as much as my nappy wearing is a non sexual thing, I find women in nappies a huge turn on and will often browse for said content if I'm needing visual stimulation. As for the other "taboo" (and thus links in with the pacifier), when my wife was pregnant with our first, I was reading all the baby books, as you do, and was reading about breastfeeding. Specifically about how to latch on (the nipple should sit on the soft part of the roof of he mouth). During foreplay, I remembered this and gave it a go. Wife was immediately struck by how nice it felt and asked what I was doing. So I explained that I was essentially "latching on". She asked me to keep doing it, and I did. Before long, I was doing it regularly and after a bit of reading around, we discovered that we were adult nursing, which gives us another terrific acronym of ANR (adult nursing relationship). It's almost a decade since we started doing it and still most nights I spend some time latched on. Occasionally it'll lead to sex, but most nights I drift off whilst attached. The problem is that often when my wife has had enough, she tries to remove me from her boob, only if I'm asleep, I'll be quite persistent at staying on. The work around is for her to swap her boob for a pacifier, which then enables me to stay asleep without kicking up a fuss. So there you have it. Two things well outside most people's comfort zone. Outwardly we are very normal. Full time jobs, regular hobbies, wide circle of friends etc. But behind closed doors I'm often found in a nappy being nursed by my wife. We're not causing any harm* and we're both as happy as can be with our situation. As for why I'm sharing this, we'll I guess the thread title was too much to resist. Also, I guess I wanted to let others no that there's no need to be ashamed of yourself. If you can accept who you are and you're not hurting anyone, where's the problem. Embrace it and feel good about yourself! I should add that no one in our real life knows about any of this, nor would I wish them to, given its something of a taboo ;) Please feel free to ask any questions and I'll do my best to answer them. Cheers Danda *Whilst not causing any harm to any person, I'm acutely aware nappies are a major environmental issue, what with them being mostly plastics. As such, I'm currently making the switch to cloth nappies, which will be completely reusable and save for the electricity and water needed to clean them, will have a significantly lower impact on the world in which we live.
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Danda, good on you, I saw an interesting documentary about men wearing nappies, its always nice to experiment, the important thing is as long as your happy that’s all that matters, have a nice time.
Cheers Knight. That wasn't supposed to be a massive wall of text. It was carefully constructed over several breaks at work. Only, my antiquated phone seems to have removed all the formatting and I can't find an edit button.
Back on topic, the documentaries always seem to focus on adult babies, probably because they're the most controversial. You never really hear about the diaper lovers. The nappies without the infantalism. Regular people who just hang out in nappies. Also, those ABs that do put themselves out there often aren't the greatest ambassadors for ABDL.
You’re welcome Danda, I’ve never discussed any of my fantasies/fetishes with anyone outside this forum.
It's not the sort of thing that most people would understand. I did make a personal vow to make sure I told Mrs D everything. If she couldn't cope with it, it'd be better knowing sooner rather than later. Thankfully, she's as kinky and weird as me, so it all sort of worked out!