Hi everyone.
Its been a while since i last posted in the forums, and sice my last post i openly came out as transgender, and finally started to live my life as myself.
since this, my wife and i are wanting to make things a little more spicey, not only at home but in public. As a result she has bought me a couple of new Tail plugs and some new skirts. She has said that she would like me to combine the two when we go out shopping/clubbing. I’m naturally a little hessitant to this level of public play. I have been wearing plugs daily for some time now and have gotten to the point where i feel naked with out it. But i was wondering if there is any UK laws against wearing tail plugs in public.
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It’s a little bit of a complicated one. There isn’t a specific law against it however it could be classed under outraging public decency if the tail could be clearly seen, it is obvious it is a butt plug toy and someone complains. I’d be a little surprised if you did attract police attention (or if they would charge you with anything) unless your outfit or behaviour was clearly intended to shock though.
I’d probably be more worried about people coming up and pulling on it! Especially drunk people if you wore it clubbing!
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it would only be worn to gay clubs, i know this doesnt remove the risk of people pulling on it, but it wouldhopefully reduce. (I HOPE)
As @Calie said I’m not sure there are laws against it but at the same time, even if you were to only wear it to gay clubs, that doesn’t mean everyone wants to be witness to it. At the end of the day it’s a butt plug and it’s classed as a sex toy and there may be some more reserved people in attendance. You may even find that you won’t be allowed admittance. Could you look at going to a kink club or event. It would most probably be accepted in there with no fear of it being pulled on.
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I’ve been in contact with South Wales police and asked them about this, and to sum it up in a nut shell they have said that as long it isn’t used in a sexual or lewd manor then there is nothing to worry about, and in the eyes of the law it is seen as a clothing accessory. The only time they will confront you is if the plug itself is on show and you start to use it for self gratification and pleasure yourself.
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Emily, you have my undying admiration… I could never in a million years summon up the guts to call my local police and ask 'em such a question. Props to you! 
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That’s great that you checked with the cops 
For me it’s a personal ethical judgement. I wouldn’t knowingly expose unconsenting people to my sexual play, but if the tail was part of my identity and not play then it would be ok.
I didn’t call them, I messaged them on Facebook through messenger
Nice stuff. I’ve worn mine out before (under a dress or skirt) and I never even thought it might be an issue. Quite relieved really!
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What sort of reactions did you get from it?? Wearing a butt plug in public is nothing new for me, but the whole tail aspect is.
Same difference. Well done you! 
Here is what the police officer said, (copied from Facebook messenger)
Hi
There is no immediate issue with this if you are wearing this under a skirt. Will you be cutting your skirt for the tail to poke through?
You would need to wear this in a manner that it would not cause offence to anyone, the way you have described it does sound like you have thought this through.
I hope this helps, and enjoy Pride 
Becky swp57595
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Massive congratulations on coming out! 
how was your wife when you opened up to her about this ?
She was super supportive
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I think most people didn’t notice. My friends who did notice were not surprised. They already think I’m kinky. It feels great though.
Glad to hear it. Wishing you many happiness moments ahead of your new life 
May I ask how short was the dress/skirt?? I only ask as I tend to only wear mini skirts. I don’t feel confident in body at the moment to be able to pull of a dress
In this case, it was a mid-thigh skirt, but the tail was only poking down about an inch. Rest of the outfit was a stunning purple corset with my hair tied up with a pair of panties (not that you could tell!)
My skirts are really quite short. Only reach half way to my knees.
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So today, i went out wearing one of my tails. And i was honestly surprised by the lack of attention it drew. Not one single person seemed to be bothered by the fact.
It was certainly a confidence boost, there was one time where someone commented and that was because as i bent over to pick up my car keys, i didnt realise that my skirt had ridden up to a point where the plug was almost noticable.
Because of how i felt while out shopping for a new outfit i decided to wear it whilst out with the girls tonight. As a result a couple of the other girls decided they wanted to try it also. so in the end there was 4 of us out on the town tonight all wearing tial plugs.
Needless to say the 4 of us all had an amazing time when we got back to one their houses. (details saved for another time, but feel free to use your imagineation)
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