How many have taken photos of your OH to use when playing solo?
And do your partner worry they would get shared with others.
We havent yet but will at some point as i want to put pictures of us in our playroom when we move. Wont keep anything on phones just in case.
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It’s all about trust in a relationship, If I was to begin a new relationship I would want to know how much I could trust her before photos with my face was given to her.
I’ve both taken and sent thousands. I have a not so secret folder which contains an absence amount of pictures, videos and GIFs. Over 7gb to give some perspective over the last 12 years.
Admittedly I wouldn’t send them if I wasn’t in a committed relationship and understand it’s not everyone’s cup of tea but for us it keeps things interesting ![]()
It gets very addictive doesn’t it. Endless ways to capture poses to surprise your loved one.
Normal clothes can be hotter than naked pictures. It’s all about the memories and situation.
Absolutely
but as the OH says, “a tit pic a day, keeps the doctor away”. ![]()
Yes, there have been times when I have thought of taking a picture of my OH in certain poses, not showing her face for anonymity, but maybe her ass and pussy, or a pic of my cock going into her pussy. I would use them instead of porn as fuel,for masturbation. I’d rather look at her than some random person.
I keep all of his for my own use, but I don’t think I’ve taken many of him for that purpose specifically. I’ve kept some of ours together too of course, and some others have taken. Those are super fun too!
Not worried about him sharing. I don’t mind that. It’s either with people we already know, or someone we want to get to know better anyway!
I kind of feel the same when in a committed relationship, I wasn’t worried if some how they got out, as it was our private fun between two loving people, nothing to be ashamed about. I would be furious though if a partner shared them without my consent, and that probably would end the relationship, as you have to have trust in a relationship.
Single life yes I would be worried and wouldn’t want some of the naughtier pictures I take now to get out, without me doing it myself and concealing my identity.
But saying that I will never be blackmailed over them.
If I had the pleasure of having a partner my phone/computer would be full of pics of her feet. Bare and in sexy shoes. With regards to sharing I think it would come down the to trust between the 2 that they are not unless otherwise stated it is fine
I’ve got hundreds and hundreds of photos and videos I’ve taken and sent to him and vice versa. I use them for my solo time, I love it when he sends me a video while he’s at work. A few times he’s done FaceTime ![]()
I do hope those that have alot of photos do make a backup of them. Remembering the
3-2-1 backup rule​![]()
I can’t imagine my OH taking any photos of herself and sending or showing them to me to arouse me. I do like the thought though. There was one time when I was sitting in my recliner, and she came over and began giving me some oral. I happened to have my I-touch handy because I was listening to some music at the time, and I snapped a couple pics of the proceedings, which did not come out well, but were pretty exciting to look at afterwards. I deleted the pics latter.
This is why I love Android, it’s so easy to transfer files - we’ve got everything backed up on the OH’s PC on a separate SSD ![]()
thousands. Its my favorite porn.
Funny story, a past partner went into the phone shop because she was having trouble with her phone, instead of asking me she just went in there, she had a chuckle about it as the person who looked at her phone saw the titles of the picture folders, luckily the pictures didn’t shop up as I had used the .nomedia trick. The female assistant found it funny, and said don’t worry about it my phone is the same.
“I can’t imagine my OH taking any photos of herself”
I can almost guarantee you she has. This is the voice of 20+ years as a photographer. Pull out the camera and the most “conservative” voice in the room suddenly turns into a wanna be porn star.
She knew you were taking pictures/attempting to take pictures that one time right? Instead of doing it unplanned with crap light, do it on purpose with good light. I dont think you understand how empowering it is to tell a partner “I find you so sexy I want to take pictures/video of you”
I have done tons of boudoir shoots and one of the consistent things I have heard was “I wish my husband/partner were shooting these.” Its one thing to get professiona pics because you are bad at shooting. Its a different thing to go to a professional because your partner shows no interest in doing it.
Ask. You will likely be pleasantly surprised at the answer. If you met My SO you would NEVER EVER EVER think that she agreed to pictures/videos of impact play/medical play/BDSM but here we are.
Yes. If she’s out for the night without me and I’m enjoying myself at home, I may, every now and again, send her a happy ending video, and a wish you were here.
Mrs W here…
Mr W and I have a couple of computer files of each of us, but Pen and I have loads of files, one for each day we took photos … we are very critical of ourselves though, photos do show every, errrrrrr shadow … xx