I used to be way more open with friends. I don’t have many friends since my so called best friend had an affair with my ex so for that reason I now find it hard to trust people especially with intimate details like about sex. It’s unfortunate for me.
We are always here @MissTery you can talk to us. We will always be very supportive and offer constructive advice if requested. Big hug to you
@MissTery so sorry to hesr your story once ypu have been cheated on its very hard to trust anyone But if you ever need a chat we are here for you
We’re always here for you @MissTery. I have never talked to anyone about sex, this forum has the kindest, friendliest people to offer help
Thank you @steve19 @AWB1955 and @Knight1119 it’s been difficult coming to terms with it. I’ve been in denial for so long and it’s time to face reality. He doesn’t value me at all he just wants me around because I love him. I feel like I’m addicted to him like codependent so it’s been really hard breaking away but I have to. He did this for years behind my back but he admitted to having a relationship with her the other week so I am struggling to deal with it. It’s getting a bit easier. I’m not a complete mess now. I was crying everyday but slowly it’s getting easier to cope emotionally. I just have to remember I am worth more than what he thinks I am. His treating me so poorly taught me that I do deserve better.
@MissTery your way better than that dear. Fuck him, don’t need people like that around. If you feel down pick them phone to someone that does love you, a friend or family member. They will remind you how you don’t need dickheads like that n make you feel good for the good person you are. Treat yourself to a new toy or two on lovehoney, get a nice bit of lingerie on n make yourself feel sexy n have a great orgasm or two.
You’re very welcome @MissTery, you deserve much better in life, sending lots of hugs
I’m glad you are feeling a little better but it will take some time. Small steps daily. You must remember you are worth lots and deserve to be loved.
We are all here to support/advise.