I am planning to connect with a bisexual girlfriend soon. I want only to eat her pussy, not revoke her gold status. She’s 45.
What phrasing can I use to not scare her off? I don’t want to come across asking to “eat your pussy” because that phrase is a mite too crass for her although she has used “pussy” to describe that anatomical region. Is there a more genteel way to describe to her what I want to do?
Here are some suggestions:
‘Can I kiss the anatomical region which may not be named, and that you wield between your legs’
‘I want to use your thighs like headphones’
‘Your pussy isn’t going to eat itself’
‘I want to 69 you, but minus the blowjob’
‘Your neck… your back… I want to lick your pussy and your crack’ 
‘I heard you drank pineapple juice recently’
‘I want to eat, your, pusssssaaaaay’ (then make the sound that Hannibal Lecter makes)
‘I recently took a class at the vet’s to learn to properly groom pussies’
‘May you please siteth, on my faceth’
‘My beard is itchy, could you please scratch it with your vagina’
‘Can I try something real quick?… yes? Ok, take off your trousers’
‘Can I kiss you on the lips?… no, not those ones’
I hope this helps.
This made me chuckle 
Perhaps on more serious note you could go along the lines of “I’m dying to taste you!” Or making her feel comfortable first and making sure she’s aware that everything is about her and not you?
Honestly, that is one of the best ones. Describes what you wanna do, but without making it sound crass.
I thought I’d give a nice selection of options 
Hey, the cold weather is getting to my ears, can i put them between your thighs
I personally think “going down on you” is one of the best ways to phrase…
I do love the above options though, and will definitely be using them (and getting slapped because of them!)
My boyfriend randomly saying “I want to lick your pussy”… weak at the kness
100% yes (every time)
Thanks to all who helped with their suggestions—some serious, some not. I’d love to hear more ideas, as my moment is coming soon.
@fl99travel if you get as far as fingering her pussy demonstrate how much you enjoy putting your fingers in your mouth and slurping her goo off them
Then snog her hard and she will taste herself too
Then tell her how good she tastes and that you want to eat out her pussy
Omg I’m quite aroused just thinking about getting down there between her labia and licking her out
Report back to let everyone know if you have any success and how she tasted and how much you both enjoyed it