I can't believe the difference this site has made to our love life! We'd always had amazing vanilla sex but the OH was a bit nervous about toys, but he's opened up so much. He's even started asking for new stuff and last night he tied me down and blindfolded me and chose toys himself and was in total control, I love seeing him like that. Then he asked if I'd tie him down tonight :D he's even open to trying a but plug, he's so much more confident.
Sex was never bad, quite the opposite but now every night is different, so thanks :)