After reading a few posts recently regarding sex and masturbation still being seen as taboo I felt we should share a few facts upon the positives of sex to celebrate sex, masturbation, and sexual pleasure overall. So here goes (please add any facts you may find!).
Sex brings couples closer
Sex boosts endorphins and can reduce depression
Sex increases cardiovascular health
Sex increases and improves blood circulation
Sex aids good sleep
Sex improves libido (more sex= more sex!)
Sex improves mood and self esteem
Sex burns calories
Add your facts and let’s celebrate sexual pleasure
The only positive benefits of sex I’ve had is with hubby. He has taught me that sex is not just sex, it’s about intimacy, exploring each other’s bodies solo or together. Giving me my first orgasm through penetration. And getting me to that stage of being comfortable in my own skin. And a whole lot more of benefits of sex too.
It makes you think about the other person. Sex makes you aware of their needs in and out of the bedroom and that it is more about them than you. It teaches you to communicate and it can make you brave with rewards because of said bravery. It can break down barriers and cross all nations and colors.
Sex is the glue that keeps love strong and healthy…and if your not careful, love can bloom from it even if you don’t want it to.
The heart is treacherous and doesn’t know what it wants. It is more dangerous than the brain - sex thinks it knows what it wants and then decides something else.
I find that sex is so much better when it is not about you. When I concentrate on what my OH wants or needs and not what I want. The sex is better and I often get more than if oI only cared about me getting off. Communication is a tremendous help before, during, and after sex.
When engaged in sex , you are not watching TV . Unless porn , never mind . When engaged in sex , you are not eating . Oops , you can be . Unless totally using self powered toys only , you are getting some exercise . I believe it leads to a very healthy relaxed body and mind .