Hi @philxhx ,
A little friendly advice on the topics you’re creating… photos have to go in Your Photo topics so they can be moderated before posting. This can only be done by @Lovehoney_Brenna (or by @Lovehoney_Lindsay when Brenna is away) and only during their working hours. You seem to realise this but have started creating new discussion posts in the Your Photos topics. This is not suitable as no posts, photos or not, can be posted to these topics without moderator approval. They are just for streams of photos from the community not for discussions.
If you post the photos you want to discuss to Images to share in topics then you are free to link to them in a new discussion thread and I’m sure you’ll get responses from people keen to chat. Same with new lingerie/fetish wear photos, pop them in Lingerie Photo Uploads and use the Members Lingerie Uploads Appreciation thread to chat.
I’m not trying to have a go just make your life (and Brenna’s) a little easier.