I don’t think it’s the start of a career @steve19 , but it is something I’ll probably do occasionally, in the right circumstances. I enjoyed it too much to walk away now!
The audience for the one specifically about Free Use was a group of people who knew someone else there, so they were chains of friends, all seriously considering adding an element of Free Use into their lifestyle.
The second one was an established group that have talks about sexual topics once every couple of months, and I was one of five people talking about spanking, then a round table discussion.
How I got them? It’s been a long time getting organised, as I wanted to be safe and comfortable, but fundamentally, they made a proposal. I’ve said no to some before, but these two were good and worth a go.
I’ve done two of them so far and they went very well @HermanHuge . It was all about the prep, feeling safe and comfortable with the setup. I didn’t have to tone anything down in either case, which was brilliant, (the audiences were exactly as the organisers described) and a friend helped me to make them more of a show than a dry powerpoint presentation.
So, as well as being explicit, naughty and true to myself, I was also informative (so I’ve been told) and managed to get over the good points and bad, whilst making it a good show.
One more to go next week, all about kink play that isn’t BDSM (tight remit for that one). But I am confident now I can work the audience and make it a worthwhile use of an evening for them, which is what I was nervous about.
Thanks for asking, both of you. 