Sounds like a good plan 
glad your doing well. Have a nice day taking it easy
Best to rest hun @MsSubExperimenter 
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I did contemplate this, it could go either way. I think it would just make him feel uncomfortable though so Iāve avoided it so far. Subtle is something Iām definitely not! 
Iāve learnt to spell it out in detail if I want him to understand!
And yes, itās the innocent ones you need to watch out for!
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Yay for getting nails done (do we get a pretty picture on Monday?)
I think today is a good day for not doing a lot. It is certainly my plan too until latish afternoon when hopefully tge rain might have eased a bit.
Glad you are all feeling not too bad post vacs 
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Already posted to the photo thread, just waiting for approval 
I think I have about half of the latest Light Elegance collection on!
edit @Peitho the photo is up 
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Excellent!
I look forward to seeing them 
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Kudos @Ian_Chimp for getting your Under Appreciated award! 
Donāt know when it actually appeared, Iāve only just spotted it. Clearly donāt pay enough attention because I under appreciate you! 
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I was wondering if you were ever going to notice that.
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Sorry - clearly Iām a bit slow on the uptakeā¦ and for your post above another occasion where I need a 
instead of a 
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When did it actually appear?
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As soon as Brenna was back in to do it. Not sure of the exact timeline, but it must have been there for about a week now?
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@Peitho That door handle is amazing. Iād really love to have those in our place.
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Pretty epic isnāt it?! I think at least one on the front door would keep away any folk without a sense of humour!
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That photo could have originated on a manufacturerās product page. If you do a google reverse image search on it, it might lead you to the company that makes them.
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Saw on Eurotrash a while back they were using plaster of Paris to take moulds of aresholes and fannyās then casting them in brass to use as handles for drawers, you just inserted your finger and pulled!
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@PleasureDrone Thanks alot for the advice. Im still at the this is new and scary stage. Basically been something ive been avoiding looking at for a long time (having almost no sexdrive due to meds most of my life didnt help the matter). It feels good to acknowledge it to myself, ive got comfortable with it now and like you said, denying it is tiring.
I know, i internally facepalmed when she said that 
. But i havenāt dated alot (dating pool is more a puddle round here + no libido till about 3 yrs ago) so i get it came from a place of caringā¦just not necessarily worded very well.
This conversation is essentially 15yrs late mostly due to my meds interference. It also came out unexpectedly due to the dratted sexuality question on the census, so i wasnt really prepared for her to ask (i think she was expecting me to tell her i was a lesbian. Bi is not the thing most peoples minds go to)
I made a personal promise a long time ago, that i would always be myself with people and If i start dating i would want to be honest with that person. Its not really something ive thought about a lot yet as right now its all pretty academic anyway due to corona and my lack of a social life. But i want to tell my friends (one of us is gay, so they will be fine anyway).
Thanks again for the advice, its really good be able to speak to someone else whose been there.
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I canāt find anywhere that actually sells that door handle which, Iām not going to lie, Iām disappointed about howeverā¦ you could always get a doorballs knocker?
All visitors must be willing to handle balls before entering!
Quick shout to @Lovehoney_Brenna as I think this link is fine as not something sold by Lovehoney and the site linked only does doorballs but though Iād better just check?
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I have a horrible feeling it is a photoshop special, and isnāt real.
You might be right 
Reverse image search was no good 
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Even my googlefu wont spit it out, ot might just be a one off custom job. Ironically though, penis door handles (door pulls) seem really common. If i ever get bored or need a bachelorette present now know where to get them xD
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Frankly, having read your post and got better acquainted with your backstory on this (I donāt even know what age you are!), I think I had it easier than you. I knew I was bi as soon as puberty hit (even before that, to be honest, but weāre not allowed to talk about anything pre-18 here so I canāt explain) whereas youāre having to do the whole self-discovery thing comparatively late in life, so props to you!
Mind you, if your mum was expecting you to tick āLesbianā on the census, I think your work on the ācoming out to mumā front might have overshot the end of the runway a tad.
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