Nice of her! Bloody parents… 
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Please can somebody let me know how to edit my profile, I’m pure lost on how to do it 
You can change your profile blurb from your Preferences/Profile page, and you can swop out your profile photo and change your Title from your Preferences/Account page. 
(and don’t forget to save the changes 
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@SteelA1 Yeah, i can imagine. I know its a bit left field, but have you ever tried erotica? A good sexy book can be a good way to get some level of emotion into it. (Cara mckenna and charlotte stein are really good. Well written with Lots of sexy bits.)
Its about as close as i can come to a sexual partner right now too, but i find it scratches an itch.
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@Green_Eyed_Girl honestly I’m not a fan of reading really! I can read don’t get me wrong, really well but I’ve just never been into reading for books! I read a lot to research things! Mainly for work and may read short stories from time to time! I remember in school the teachers where so frustrated with me as I’d never read books they gave me but could always read really well! 
erotica might keep me interested though who knows!
If I’m not being to nosey why have you know partner? Is it out of choice or has mr/mrs right just not shown their face yet? 
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@SteelA1 The second option sadly. Dating pool isnt very big round here. Plus the M.E/CFS is incredibly isolating. Means i don’t meet alot of people i click with frustratingly. Think i am going to have to resort to online dating or something. Kind of stuck with the whole covid thing atm.
I dont know. Most People just tend not to take the effort to get to know me. Which is a shame for them really. 
@Gazza_64 if its kind, has a good sense of humor and a nice smile i’ll take a prescription 
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@Green_Eyed_Girl those people who won’t take the time to get to know you obviously weren’t right for you snd you obviously weren’t supposed to be with them! Imagine not taking the time to get to know someone and never knowing you’ve just missed out on spending the rest of you’re life with you’re soulmate, all because they haven’t got the time 
You’ll just be minding you’re own business one day and then there they’ll be, right in front of you!
There is someone out there for each of us, it’s just not been you’re time yet to meet youre someone! Think positive thoughts 
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@Green_Eyed_Girl @SteelA1 as we all do it’s nice to be wanted but sometimes good to be on your own 
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That’s so unfair people not taking the time to get to know you but they’re obviously not worth their weight in gold bab you deserve nothing but the best n I’m so sorry your relationship has ended as last time I seen you was with somebody don’t worry the right one will come along and sweep you off your feet bab
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@Alyssa646 Not me i’m afraid. I haven’t had anyone in an awfully long time.
Thanks for saying such nice things though. 
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Sorry bab, I must be getting you mixed up with somebody else. I read another post which is bang on, there is someone out there for everyone you’ve just not met them yet but one day when you least expect it they’ll come along and rock your world hun that’s exactly what happened to me, when I was younger I truly believe I’d be dead if I’ve never met hubs as I was on the rocky road to nowhere proper in self destruct mode. Now everything has changed I’m with my soul mate and couldn’t be happier 
so I know there’s someone out there for everyone and you will meet them one day when you least expect it hun
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Life has a way of giving you the person that’s right for you when you least expect it. Obviously this last year has not been good for socialising in person, but i’m sure your perfect person will turn up. Not everyone is shallow, and many will look past the illness and see the real you.
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@WillC @Alyssa646 @SteelA1 @Gazza_64 thanks guys. I hope your all right. I know its possible (my sister found her partner after she had kind of given up on it ever happening and he is lovely. They are so happy).
ME/CFS is a really cruel condition that has basically stolen the last 10 years of my life. Im getting to the point where I’m well enough to start having more normal in my life and i just don’t know where to start.
Its so easy to feel broken when your the person no one ever picks. I know I’m not, but its easy to feel that way when I’m low.
I don’t need a partner to make me complete, im my own person. But life is a journey and it would be nice to share it with someone.
Anyway, sorry. Spilling emotions everywhere. You know what its like when you bottle it for ages.
I hope your all right. I know it probably hasnt been the right time to meet anyone previously. (Not that now is either, dratted covid 
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Hopefully the future will be brighter for all of us.
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@Green_Eyed_Girl nothing to say but I know that it’s difficult for us all one day that certain person may appear you never know what’s around the corner, also if you do find that certain person does appear they will extremely lucky to have you
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