The Lounge

We had cloud, so i didnt manage to see anything sadly. If its clear, i might give it a go tonight.

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@Green_Eyed_Girl the moon isn’t going to be as bright as it has been tonight so you stand a better chance i reckons :+1:

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I was in Central Birmingham so could barely see sky or make out stars

Good plan. :+1:

@Melody1 worth having a punt tonight, there might be some out there still

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@Lovehoney_Brenna if this post is in the wrong place I apologise
Right then I’ll set the scene, me and Mrs Pootle are having a 1 night mini vacation and all the signs earlier on when we checked in were looking favourable for some action tonight (I’m not going to lie i was getting proper excited)
Now imagine my dismay as literally within the hour of checking in Mrs Pootle starts to feel a bit ā€œsquiffyā€ and by the time we’ve had our meal she’s ready to head to the bathroom…i felt a bit uneasy but it seems to have moved on for me now so I’m sat like Billy no mates in the hotel bar whilst Mrs Pootle is in our room feeling the effects of the bug our lad and family have seemingly passed onto us,Mrs P in particular!!!
Now i don’t wish to sound like a selfish brat and i know she can’t help it but i am sooo f####d off right now as this is the second time this year this has happened and I honestly think Mrs Pootle was up for some fun which makes it even more of a pill to swallow.
I think I’m just destined to live out my days with no intimacy or sexual activity with my wife and currently it’s really hurting, so much so i feel like getting completely wasted.
Sorry for the depressing post but it’s my state of mind right now.

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@pootle - that sucks, sorry to hear

Oh, thats really unfortunate. What bad timing to catch a bug for you both.
:hugs: im sure it wont be the only opportunity. But it is a pity you both couldn’t enjoy your mini break as you’d planned.

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No shooting stars here either :frowning: Too much high cloud…and then fog rolled in

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@Green_Eyed_Girl sadly due to my wife’s health our sex life pretty much died in 2017 so i hope you can imagine my frustration as to be honest i hadn’t planned on anything happening, but a little bit of playful touching/groping wasn’t met with the usual outburst and i was told to calm down and slow down as we could have an early night, all said with a little smile and a look i haven’t seen for a few years (no joke) i felt as if I’d won the lottery but then lost the ticket…

I feel your frustration, life always seems to throw a spanner in the works just when things are looking up. Hopefully you can plan another break and there will be no sudden spanner.

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I’m sorry @pootle I understand the disappointment. The timing was really bad.

When your wife is feeling better have a chat with her about it, she was feeling the feels that night so find out what helped her feel that way, if it was the night away and could you recreate that at home if everyone was out.

I hope you’re feeling a bit better.

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Sorry to hear this I do hope you get another opportunity very soon must be so difficult for you ! :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

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I think a chat once she is feeling better is the thing to do. I understand your frustration. @pootle

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@Green_Eyed_Girl @Bonzo2020 @WillC @JoCat @Latex73 @steve19
Cheers for the support guys,i just needed to vent!!!
Neither of us are feeling to bright today either so I’ll attempt a chat about what could’ve been when we both feel better.

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Hi @carzy , replying here as the Review thread is meant to just be for reviews so you have an easy reference for finding them if you want to talk about a particular review you’ve written in a different thread. It also allows us to keep a record of our reviews in one place.

I’m going to direct you to @Ian_Chimp 's Reviewing Reviews which has loads of helpful tips in it. In addition, @Blonde_Bunny 's :pencil2: The Review Writing Routine is a topic that has great advice in it for writing reviews.

If you’re happy to post a few reviews and ask for constructive feedback please do so, I think people here will be really helpful.

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@carzy seconding @Peitho, the reviewing reviews thread is great. Lots of good tips on there.
Ive seen people post reviews (not secret ones, obviously) on here and ask for feedback. If you do one, give me a yell and i’ll be happy to have a look for you. Sure other people will as well :smile::+1:

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Does anyone know what the follow notifications are i keep getting? Is it a new feature?

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I received a notification last night saying another member was following me. It seems to be a new feature although I am not sure what the advantage is. I’vw taken it on board and have been following various members including yourself. It appears you just get notified if they post something. I hope that helps. @Green_Eyed_Girl

I suddenly feel under a lot of pressure :grin:

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It’s a feature that’s been turned on now.

More info in @Ian_Chimp post here about notification settings :blush:

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